Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sleeptouching
holdfast 7 964 by northstarmom
Apr 4, 2023 20:30:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I'm Not Dreaming, But She Is
blunder8 6 833 by blunder8
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The resentment is running high
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catlover 26 1,714 by northstarmom
Feb 25, 2023 11:56:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The Spouse Who Doesn’t Want Sex Has Affair
dawgxl 3 1,051 by baza
Feb 22, 2023 22:38:07 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Marathon - processing by analogy
holdfast 7 1,135 by mirrororchid
Feb 7, 2023 6:10:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Registered March 29 2016
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sweetplumeria 18 1,256 by catlover
Feb 5, 2023 14:43:01 GMT -5
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Poll: If your spouse suddenly wanted regular sex....
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Deleted 39 3,216 by catlover
Jan 17, 2023 14:54:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Not ready to leave-for now
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blujay 16 1,389 by angeleyes65
Jan 12, 2023 10:18:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So there is a girl
TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo 9 1,094 by sweetplumeria
Jan 12, 2023 4:21:53 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling kelly bundy
lwoetin 0 882 by lwoetin
Jan 11, 2023 3:08:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling Trapped
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mike38 72 4,262 by h
Dec 8, 2022 16:01:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Looking for opinions
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heelots 34 1,868 by sweetplumeria
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
dallasgia 12 1,193 by worksforme2
Nov 26, 2022 9:23:46 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Bittersweet
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catlover 27 1,709 by northstarmom
Nov 3, 2022 12:54:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A tough choice
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heelots 25 1,312 by mirrororchid
Oct 26, 2022 7:06:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Beating a dead horse
angeleyes65 3 989 by angeleyes65
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Whats up you f****ers?
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TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo 21 1,294 by h
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Retirement looms
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cobweb 43 1,902 by greatcoastal
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newBookmarkLockedFalling FWB - short term or long term fix?
scotinbe 3 768 by scotinbe
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Wow - She initiated yesterday morning
steve1968 2 819 by h
Jun 1, 2022 13:19:17 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Some progress
catlover 11 1,060 by angeleyes65
May 22, 2022 9:15:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
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lessingham 28 3,461 by worksforme2
May 16, 2022 8:59:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finally stopped wanting it
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blueguy 21 2,205 by jim44444
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When! Very soon …
lanie 8 671 by lanie
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Fork in the road
TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo 6 479 by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
Mar 10, 2022 7:14:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Update
lonelycat 3 391 by lanie
Feb 19, 2022 22:17:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling At sixes and sevens
catlover 14 535 by mirrororchid
Feb 15, 2022 7:04:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Almost 5 years of SM in a 13-year marriage. She avoids topic
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coffeeachiever 19 1,232 by northstarmom
Feb 11, 2022 7:30:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Newbie here - Staying seems like the only option....
steve1968 10 526 by mirrororchid
Feb 10, 2022 20:29:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My life with someone that just wasn’t all that attracted to
Deleted 4 407 by mirrororchid
Jan 24, 2022 7:01:08 GMT -5

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notdeadyet: (I'm never sure of posting protocols here. Forgive me if I don't do it right) This is vwell said. We finally found a therapist who wasn't anti-male biased from the outset. She concluded that my W was OCPD, NOT the same as OCD at all. But it took month Dec 17, 2023 14:01:27 GMT -5
jim44444: @notdeadyet you might wNtbo.post your updates and story under the sexless marriage folder. The shout box only appears in desktop mode not the mobile version. Dec 18, 2023 18:24:58 GMT -5
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mirrororchid: Do you think it would help if the vow were changed to "Forsaking everyone but you". Exact same meaning, but less susceptible to twisting. Jan 2, 2024 7:08:35 GMT -5
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samc: It's not cheating if the spouse in question cannot perform sexually due to physical or psychosexual disorders. Jan 10, 2024 22:34:13 GMT -5
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