With all the hub-bub lately and hurt feelings, I'm going to make a suggestion that is working for me.
Wait a day.
Type your reply in your notes. Get it all out of your head. Save it and move on.
The next day read it over and decide if you still feel the same.
You may decide to let it go, or you may decide to blast that person out of the water with your words.
I'm going to start doing this. I think it will also be helpful for me to examine my feelings later to see how far I've come or how far I've moved away from my goals in the relationship. Thanks for the advice. Save
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
worksforme2: I'm reading about flash flooding in south east Australia. I think that might be near you Baz. Are you located on high ground?
Oct 14, 2022 10:16:46 GMT -5
greatcoastal: Thanks for the B.D. wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D. dance with the Ladies tomorrow!
Oct 14, 2022 16:38:40 GMT -5
petrushka: Hope you haven't had to resort to snorkles yet, Baza. I just saw a figure of 12m for some place. Yeesh. And according to the flood warning map you're in the red zone...
Oct 15, 2022 6:09:38 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday misssunnybunny.....
Oct 23, 2022 5:06:17 GMT -5
wewbwb: The best of birthday wishes to misssunnybunny , a special woman who deserves the best!
Oct 23, 2022 9:56:58 GMT -5
petrushka: Ditto, many happy returns!
Oct 24, 2022 1:27:01 GMT -5
jim44444: Was that a shootout from the long absent wewbwb?
Oct 24, 2022 17:38:53 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Thank you for the birthday wishes! It was a very happy birthday!
Oct 25, 2022 10:05:56 GMT -5
wewbwb: Yes jim44444 I only appear on misssunnybunny birthday. But that doesn't mean I don't watch what you hooligans are up to.
Oct 25, 2022 19:03:38 GMT -5
mirrororchid: What if we say your name three times?
Oct 26, 2022 19:15:10 GMT -5