archived introductions (June 2016)
Jun 27, 2016 1:24:18 GMT -5
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Post by wanomad on Jun 27, 2016 1:24:18 GMT -5
Hi , My Name is Scott and I live in a sexless marriage.......
13 years married now but totally sexless since September 1st 2013...TOTALY.
My wife has never had what you would call a high Libido and I'd be quite happy to make love to her every night as it helps me relax.
She is highly orgasmic and when we used to make love we would invite "Alvin Purple" our mutually purchased bedroom friend to join us, She would use the vibrator to get really into the mood and the after about 10 huge orgasms would say Im ready for you now "Fu%k me Rooster" she was always quiet vocal and would respond to dirty talk so to speak. I love watching her orgasm it is a whole of body thing with her, she goes bright red all over , her eyes roll back in her head and the gutteral moans she lets out would almost make be loose control just watching her. We were good together and she seemed to enjoy it.
We had a rough year with a share take over deal that when t sour and she had to go back to work to fill a financial hole that it had left. " Thats when it all dried up, after about 5 months of no sex , touching, kissing, talking or nudity "Punishment"
I tried to talk to about it which resulted in an arguement, she comes from a divorced family and she said she would never get divorced but would just live in the marriage even at the cost of her own happiness WTF ? I gave her a $1.2 million dollar house and because she had to go back to work after 10 years its all my fault... So passive agressive had become the norm, Silent treatment , getting the kids to ask questions when I'm right there, I mean really how childish can you get.
I guess it was the little things at first I should have noticed , the no longer wanting to kiss on the lips and the multitude of excuses that went with it, youll take my lippy, I have a zit , ive just come from the gym etc etc, the not saying good night , or hello when they walked in the door after work, the not saying oh im heading out now to go to the shops see you later.
The double standards of her being able to walk into the bathroom to do her teeth whilst im in the shower but if I do it I'm a "Pervert"
Ive seen her naked since then walking into the our bedroom just as she putting on her bra and Ive gone arrgh my eyes my eyes just to try and make light of the fact, shes still extremely hot " in my eyes " and I tell her all the time .
She has said in the past I'm a mum now, mums don't do that when it came to things like me going down on her and her giving me felatio it was a sign to me that she loved me , why else would you put a cock in your mouth !
I wont give up hope and still dream of the day when she wakes and says to her self , gee ive been a real bicth , those promises I made on our wedding day, "For Richer for Poorer" I didnt do that very well did I.
I miss her, her touch, her lips on mine and not a great big tounge kiss, those little nibbles where you pull away and go I have to have more of that and dive back in again. The mutual orgasm where afterwards you can look at each other and laugh going wow, look at the size of that wet spot, not running to the shower and worrying about the doona cover.
I think we over think things, after 3 years I wonder if she now thinks its too late to get back on the bike or as Nike says "Just do it"
13 years married now but totally sexless since September 1st 2013...TOTALY.
My wife has never had what you would call a high Libido and I'd be quite happy to make love to her every night as it helps me relax.
She is highly orgasmic and when we used to make love we would invite "Alvin Purple" our mutually purchased bedroom friend to join us, She would use the vibrator to get really into the mood and the after about 10 huge orgasms would say Im ready for you now "Fu%k me Rooster" she was always quiet vocal and would respond to dirty talk so to speak. I love watching her orgasm it is a whole of body thing with her, she goes bright red all over , her eyes roll back in her head and the gutteral moans she lets out would almost make be loose control just watching her. We were good together and she seemed to enjoy it.
We had a rough year with a share take over deal that when t sour and she had to go back to work to fill a financial hole that it had left. " Thats when it all dried up, after about 5 months of no sex , touching, kissing, talking or nudity "Punishment"
I tried to talk to about it which resulted in an arguement, she comes from a divorced family and she said she would never get divorced but would just live in the marriage even at the cost of her own happiness WTF ? I gave her a $1.2 million dollar house and because she had to go back to work after 10 years its all my fault... So passive agressive had become the norm, Silent treatment , getting the kids to ask questions when I'm right there, I mean really how childish can you get.
I guess it was the little things at first I should have noticed , the no longer wanting to kiss on the lips and the multitude of excuses that went with it, youll take my lippy, I have a zit , ive just come from the gym etc etc, the not saying good night , or hello when they walked in the door after work, the not saying oh im heading out now to go to the shops see you later.
The double standards of her being able to walk into the bathroom to do her teeth whilst im in the shower but if I do it I'm a "Pervert"
Ive seen her naked since then walking into the our bedroom just as she putting on her bra and Ive gone arrgh my eyes my eyes just to try and make light of the fact, shes still extremely hot " in my eyes " and I tell her all the time .
She has said in the past I'm a mum now, mums don't do that when it came to things like me going down on her and her giving me felatio it was a sign to me that she loved me , why else would you put a cock in your mouth !
I wont give up hope and still dream of the day when she wakes and says to her self , gee ive been a real bicth , those promises I made on our wedding day, "For Richer for Poorer" I didnt do that very well did I.
I miss her, her touch, her lips on mine and not a great big tounge kiss, those little nibbles where you pull away and go I have to have more of that and dive back in again. The mutual orgasm where afterwards you can look at each other and laugh going wow, look at the size of that wet spot, not running to the shower and worrying about the doona cover.
I think we over think things, after 3 years I wonder if she now thinks its too late to get back on the bike or as Nike says "Just do it"