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Post by thebaffledking on Oct 16, 2018 2:11:23 GMT -5
RC, I couldn't agree more. Wishing the best for you and GG, and SOON!!
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Post by ggold on Oct 16, 2018 8:11:31 GMT -5
Hey Guys, if you quoted my post and it contains her photo, I would very much appreciate it if you would edit the post to remove the quote and/or photo. I had told her I'd just leave it up for a couple days and didn't expect it would appear in full quote glory. Thank you!! Done!!
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Post by ggold on Oct 16, 2018 8:15:19 GMT -5
RC, I couldn't agree more. Wishing the best for you and GG, and SOON!! Thank you so much! We totally appreciate the positive vibes!!
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Post by thebaffledking on Oct 17, 2018 6:00:04 GMT -5
Awwwwwwhhh! I was at work (where I have to use the freeforums.net access and can't log in but can read) and came back now, here at home, to see the photo of baza and ms. enna!! But the post is gone!!!!!!!!!! SO DISAPPOINTED!!!!!! I love seeing these post-shithole photos
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Post by ironhamster on Oct 18, 2018 2:32:23 GMT -5
Awwwwwwhhh! I was at work (where I have to use the freeforums.net access and can't log in but can read) and came back now, here at home, to see the photo of baza and ms. enna!! But the post is gone!!!!!!!!!! SO DISAPPOINTED!!!!!! I love seeing these post-shithole photos Agreed. Some day, when it is appropriate, I will post a pic of myself and idgaf96, so long as I have her permission. It may be a long time, though, before her situation is untangled enough for that to happen.
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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Oct 11, 2022 20:05:13 GMT -5
Blast from the past. For some of the newcomers, this is thebaffledking's story. One of the most memorable one's here. I always remember his updates after he left his SM. Check out his updates. He kept coming back until 2021. Here's hoping he makes another visit. This happened to me. 4.5 years ago I received a message from a woman on EP, from 7000 miles away, telling me my story mirrored hers to a tee. She was a member of EP-ILIASM, but I don't think she ever made a post herself. Anyway, my gawd how we hit it off. Neither of us were out there looking. Both of us were suffering mightily. But neither of us had ever suddenly felt so instantly close to another human being. And then I saw her face, just like the song. OMG......I was fucking floored by her beauty. I was just so stunned that a woman of such beauty could be in an SM.....but it's not about looks in an SM, and that's a point that isn't often made (but is for another thread some other time). From that very first day, I found myself chatting for several hours every single day without fail. This went on for a YEAR before we met in person.....and that meeting was comprised of moments that would both make a sailor blush and Oprah shed tears of spiritual joy. It was everything both of us had thought it would be.....but I had some things I was committed to seeing through at home, and so was she.....we knew we'd meet again, but thank God we didn't know at the time how LONG it would be....another three YEARS would go by! And yet, we chatted every single day, for hours, as always. We finally met again this past July and again -- the intensity of the experience, on all levels and in all aspects....I can't even find the words. And now? She is moving in with me next month. I know, I know, the cold heart will say 'Oh jeeze, this clown's heading for disaster!' Nope. Not even a little. I have been alone, spiritually and physically, for the last 15 years, albeit being married. This is no 'rebound' for either of us. The quality of this woman and what we feel for each other is just so extraordinary.....over four and a half years. We actually semi-joke that the 4.5 years of being forced to TALK and only talk has probably made our relationship more extraordinary and durable than if we'd met and gotten to know each other under more traditional circumstances. We couldn't rely on anything but communication for 99% of all that time. We have both been through the mill, but now we're about to enter into a shared life of fun, adventure, peace, contentment, travel....and sex like I've never known before. And it all started ONLINE, with neither of us looking for anything more on EP than a place to share our pain and commiserate.......I am a lucky man. I hit the jackpot and my life has been saved. Baby's coming home!
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Post by shamwow on Oct 12, 2022 17:00:09 GMT -5
It's interesting...after doing long distance with ballofconfusion for 2 1/2 years, it has been almost 3 years now since we moved in together. One thing that was really unique was that by first posting our stories on here, we had a completely no-bullshit relationship that has carried on to this day. Imagine meeting someone for the first time online and already knowing they had been in a sexless marriage. That they'd had an affair. That they knew you were an alcoholic and had considered suicide to get out of your SM. There simply isn't any room for the usual beginning of a relationship "let me show my best face as long as I can, gradually dole out the dirt, and hope they don't run screaming for the hills". When you start from that point it's amazing how easy it is to be open and vulnerable.
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