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Post by baza on Feb 11, 2022 19:32:37 GMT -5
I moved to another room some years back and was sleeping my best dreams. Spouse demanded I return to the bedroom as I was upsetting the children. If there is no snuggling, fun, sex - there is zero reason to share a bed with someone. Your spouse may 'demand' whatever he likes Sister dallasgia . It's your choice whether you accede to his demands or not. And, you are well entitled to make your own demands of him. And it would be his choice whether he accedes to them or not. |
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Post by heelots on Feb 14, 2022 1:25:43 GMT -5
…and I liked it. Wife got Covid so I had to sleep on an air mattress in the living room while she was quarantined to the master suite. She was pretty sick for awhile but ok now. I ended up getting it also but was very mild and barely bothered me. We were doing pretty good with reset sex but that ended after our wonderful vacation in Tenn in mid December. Only one time since then and not at all in January. I rather like not being told to turn over or stop doing something else that annoys her. It’s nice not to have that body next to me and just long for a touch or anything at all intimate. If I want to watch porn or jerk off I can. I was going to move back in tonight but after a small argument I decided to stay in here again. I don’t care if it’s permanent to tell you the truth. You will like sleeping alone better. |
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Post by h on Feb 14, 2022 12:38:31 GMT -5
I really enjoy sleeping alone when either of us get sick. She doesn't want to be around me if I'm sick and although I don't really care the other way around, I play the same part for some extra alone nights. I always sleep better alone, fall asleep faster, wake up feeling more rested. If I'm in the mood, I can take care of myself as I see fit without causing any awkwardness. Otherwise, I will typically wait until I'm sure she's fallen asleep before handling my business. I much prefer sleeping alone to sleeping with her. Typically, I won't even bring up moving back into the bedroom and I can usually squeeze a couple more days in before she says something. My 2 weeks on Covid quarantine were gold!
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Post by northstarmom on Feb 14, 2022 16:57:13 GMT -5
h: Why do you feel that you need to move back into the bedroom even though you don't want to? Why not continue to live your truth?
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Post by h on Feb 14, 2022 17:33:03 GMT -5
h: Why do you feel that you need to move back into the bedroom even though you don't want to? Why not continue to live your truth? Because I've made the conscious decision that the ensuing argument isn't worth my energy compared to what I consider the mild inconvenience of a little lost sleep. It's the less bad option for now. |
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