Post by wills on Dec 30, 2023 15:58:37 GMT -5
Oh my where do I start I guess from the beginning, my wonderful wife and I have been married over 20 years and sex was great, about 4 years ago my wife started having medical complications that has left us well I guess I hate to say it but no sex for the last 2 years, we are a older couple and sometimes things like this happens, so naturally I’ve become a sexless camel meaning I can go a long time without it and not really crave it.
Until recently I never gave it great thought, until about a month ago my wife’s seventeen year old granddaughter wanted a hug as she was leaving, all the grandkids are great and I love them all always treating them as young adults with respect and love, but anyway I said ok not really thinking anything just the thought she never asked me or gave me a hug before, we hugged and immediately I could tell this was more than a friendly hug more like a girlfriend to boyfriend hug I was thinking to myself I think she more than just likes me.
But anyway I told my wife what happened and I said to her I think she loves me or at least likes me a lot, she just blew it off kinda like so what big deal, I knew it was something more than that but anyway about a month after that ( I’ll call the granddaughter Susan ) Susan was in the kitchen backed up too the center island trying to jump up a couple of inches to sit on the island, she asked me to help her up I said sure and now I know that was my mistake I should have said let me get you a stool, but I went over to her and gave her a lift up as soon as she put her arms around my neck I knew this was so wrong, I lifted her up and set her on the island.
At this point there’s more to this but I just wanted to say no sex or improper touching or anything like that ever happened between us, but I have to say we did kiss just on the cheek that time, I didn’t realize I was missing something in my life until that moment, it’s so wrong and we have talked about this Susan and I, I asked her a bunch of questions and was surprised by her answers I would have never guessed, and yes I have to make this right if there is such a way to do it.
Until recently I never gave it great thought, until about a month ago my wife’s seventeen year old granddaughter wanted a hug as she was leaving, all the grandkids are great and I love them all always treating them as young adults with respect and love, but anyway I said ok not really thinking anything just the thought she never asked me or gave me a hug before, we hugged and immediately I could tell this was more than a friendly hug more like a girlfriend to boyfriend hug I was thinking to myself I think she more than just likes me.
But anyway I told my wife what happened and I said to her I think she loves me or at least likes me a lot, she just blew it off kinda like so what big deal, I knew it was something more than that but anyway about a month after that ( I’ll call the granddaughter Susan ) Susan was in the kitchen backed up too the center island trying to jump up a couple of inches to sit on the island, she asked me to help her up I said sure and now I know that was my mistake I should have said let me get you a stool, but I went over to her and gave her a lift up as soon as she put her arms around my neck I knew this was so wrong, I lifted her up and set her on the island.
At this point there’s more to this but I just wanted to say no sex or improper touching or anything like that ever happened between us, but I have to say we did kiss just on the cheek that time, I didn’t realize I was missing something in my life until that moment, it’s so wrong and we have talked about this Susan and I, I asked her a bunch of questions and was surprised by her answers I would have never guessed, and yes I have to make this right if there is such a way to do it.