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Seek and offer support in dealing with a sexless marriage.

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by sweetplumeria
Jun 5, 2023 11:22:38 GMT -5
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Resource for trying to fix a sexless marriage... or getting out of one.

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by sweetplumeria
Jun 4, 2023 5:45:48 GMT -5
No New Posts Choosing to Stay - 1 Viewing

Focusing on the challenges of staying in a sexless marriage. Share advice, pitfalls, successes, and setbacks.

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by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
May 9, 2023 21:49:14 GMT -5
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For those who have "escaped": share your experiences both positive and negative.

607 12,830 The pros are becoming more appealing
by onempty
Jun 5, 2023 7:01:57 GMT -5
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Parenting or financial issues compounding your marital issues? Discuss here.

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by baza
Jun 4, 2023 18:25:08 GMT -5
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The best advice for dealing with an SM from around the web -- reposted here to preserve the wit and wisdom.

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by mirrororchid
Apr 13, 2023 18:52:31 GMT -5
No New Posts Lighter Side

Sometime it helps to make light of the situation: humor is a great healer!

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Open chat about non-marital topics. (No politics, though.)

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by mirrororchid
Jun 5, 2023 6:04:18 GMT -5

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