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Post by LITW on May 13, 2016 13:20:35 GMT -5
Holy cow .... my wife could have written that. :/
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2016 14:03:27 GMT -5
I admit that I have a penchant for being excited by things I'm not supposed to do. But I guess I'm enough of a romantic to believe that, if a man I loved and desired, loved and desired ME enough to marry me - that I would still want sex with him. But there are things you can do - Car sex- no panty walks- public sex - it doesn't have to get boring unless you let it. Exactly! I like the way you think. ;-) My ex never did do me on his boss's desk, like he promised. :-( |
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2016 14:27:08 GMT -5
But there are things you can do - Car sex- no panty walks- public sex - it doesn't have to get boring unless you let it. Exactly! I like the way you think. ;-) My ex never did do me on his boss's desk, like he promised. :-( Now there's an idea that completely escaped me. I wish I had thought of that. |
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Post by wewbwb on May 13, 2016 14:39:43 GMT -5
But there are things you can do - Car sex- no panty walks- public sex - it doesn't have to get boring unless you let it. Exactly! I like the way you think. ;-) My ex never did do me on his boss's desk, like he promised. :-( My boss has a desk....  I think everyone understands that yes - married sex can get routine - if you let it. But with a little effort and creativity it doesn't have to. A pre-married girlfriend I had would grab me throw me on her parents bed when we went to visit. I loved her parents.... |
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2016 16:40:15 GMT -5
I want to read the article where the husband is interviewed ALONE, rather than where she answers all the questions. Poor guy. He looks defeated.
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Post by wewbwb on May 13, 2016 17:05:13 GMT -5
I want to read the article where the husband is interviewed ALONE, rather than where she answers all the questions. Poor guy. He looks defeated. I did notice that side also. And the picture with the kids.... urgh. |
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Post by baza on May 14, 2016 22:40:09 GMT -5
Might be just my mood today, but having read the article a couple of times, it presents to me as a story about two losers.
One of which thinks they are a winner.
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Post by petrushka on May 14, 2016 23:15:31 GMT -5
Quote: 'We have tried countless methods to get things going, but even though I'm in the mood she never is. She isn't comfortable with her body. It seems daft to me as I think she has a fantastic figure. It is hard, but I try to be understanding and hopefully things will get better.'
Yes, he would fit right in here.
Consider though, that some people really do have huge problems with their body image, just like some people have such problems with their self esteem that they cannot believe that someone would be able to love them. They loathe themselves, so how can someone else claim to love them. Unbelievable. They must be lying.
(oh yes, I have seen that happen).
However, in this case I think there's other things in play. Again, I've seen this gambit before: on the wedding night the switch gets thrown. No. More. Sex. I remember a couple of women from EP who struck that with their newlywed husbands. I've also seen a complete turnabout in the personality of a couple of women who, the moment they 'had their man', completely lost interest in keeping up their relationship, except for the janitor and ATM bits. It's pretty darn fucked up.
Sounds like Louise is stuggling with it at least, I don't see her as a snide, unconcerned, uncaring biatch, but.... yeah, that therapist may do her good, or not.
Stuart on the other hand would fit right in here, he's a wet blanket (takes one to know one). "she's not comfortable with it, so I don't push her".
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Post by samedeepwater on May 15, 2016 10:02:34 GMT -5
On an ordinary day in May, the editorial stuff of Daily Mail (England's most hideous tabloid) didn't know what story to put in their FeMail section (note the wordplay, genius!!). Between someone's protruding and botoxed lips, breasts and/or arse (which is no longer "news" let alone "good"), and the story of a woman who hasn't slept with her hubby (since she said "I do") not much of a choice, don't you all think?! It did catch one thefullmoon 's attention!  JMX : girl, you always say it better!  greatcoastal : good point! I believe hair is not the only thing he lost since marriage. Balls, perhaps, too? samedeepwater : not only you can have one of those avis, but for absolutely zero extra costs, you might have an avi with the same hairstyle as the man in the article! deleted : are you sure you are not a bot? Sorry, had to ask!  eternaloptimism : I have a theory that the article was originally planned for something else, and at the last moment the editorial crew decided to change the story angle? wewbwb : I think she's right! In her marriage, "aLL iS gREAT bAR sEX"... @smartkat : I'm biting my nails, impatiently waiting the sequel story: how not to sleep with your hubby since your wedding day, and NOT get caught! @creelunion : Creel to his younger self: run Creel, run! I just love arse. But then again I could get hard listening to a lady from the UK read the phone book. Or listening to the Cure, but I probably shouldn't have said that out loud. |
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Post by RumRunner on May 15, 2016 22:14:53 GMT -5
The cold responses and ignorant comments really blows me away!!!!! I think it really describes the coldness many people have today..... I am glad this is a much better and sympathetic group than that. One of the comments: "The vast majority of men visit sex workers so she needn't worry too much about him and as the years roll by and her children grow up she'll take better care of herself, be less exhausted and start feeling sexy again." <---- This is so degrading and insulting, and obviously not true. Ignorance such as this really makes me angry. |
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Post by LITW on May 16, 2016 9:20:41 GMT -5
I admit that I have a penchant for being excited by things I'm not supposed to do. But I guess I'm enough of a romantic to believe that, if a man I loved and desired, loved and desired ME enough to marry me - that I would still want sex with him. But there are things you can do - Car sex- no panty walks- public sex - it doesn't have to get boring unless you let it. Personally, I would vote for a "no panty walk" .... if I had a vote that is |
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Post by wewbwb on May 16, 2016 9:24:46 GMT -5
yup. |
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Post by samedeepwater on May 18, 2016 7:03:00 GMT -5
I just love arse. But then again I could get hard listening to a lady from the UK read the phone book. Or listening to the Cure, but I probably shouldn't have said that out loud. Well, those UK ladies, aren't they lucky? PS. I prefer boys that DO cry, and those that are in love all days of the week, not just Fridays Well then... Ferry 'Cross the Mersey and Light my Fire (thank you, I'll be here all week) |
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Post by thefullmoon on Jun 8, 2016 13:38:59 GMT -5
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Post by cagedadventurer on Jun 8, 2016 16:27:57 GMT -5
The marital bonding, an important and unique bonding which is hard to fully explain or describe makes it more than a physical act. Funny thing is, when sexed even weekly or 10 days, I am not thinking about it much. When it's elusive, it is consuming. But I do not want it with complete strangers.
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