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Post by sadkat on Oct 23, 2018 21:40:32 GMT -5
Okay, something less heavy. You are ordering an ice cream sundae, three scoops. What flavors? (I meant less heavy in a metaphysical sense.) I’m late to the party- chocolate chip, chocolate toffee, and vanilla with lots of chocolate syrup. Now I wanna go get some!!! |
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Post by choosinghappy on Oct 23, 2018 21:53:45 GMT -5
Mmmm, ice cream.
People who face their fears head on are inspiring to me. I try to walk in their footsteps and live the quote: “feel the fear and do it anyway”.
I am also inspired by people who live a life they find fulfilling - no matter what it is they do for work, if they are truly happy and can go to bed feeling a sense of fulfillment each day then that is an inspiration to me. That’s the kind of person I want to be.
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Post by sadkat on Oct 23, 2018 22:29:34 GMT -5
Mmmm, ice cream. People who face their fears head on are inspiring to me. I try to walk in their footsteps and live the quote: “feel the fear and do it anyway”. I am also inspired by people who live a life they find fulfilling - no matter what it is they do for work, if they are truly happy and can go to bed feeling a sense of fulfillment each day then that is an inspiration to me. That’s the kind of person I want to be. You are well on your way! |
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Post by choosinghappy on Oct 23, 2018 23:07:54 GMT -5
Mmmm, ice cream. People who face their fears head on are inspiring to me. I try to walk in their footsteps and live the quote: “feel the fear and do it anyway”. I am also inspired by people who live a life they find fulfilling - no matter what it is they do for work, if they are truly happy and can go to bed feeling a sense of fulfillment each day then that is an inspiration to me. That’s the kind of person I want to be. You are well on your way! Thank you sadkat 😊 |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2018 4:07:45 GMT -5
People who face their fears head on are inspiring to me. I try to walk in their footsteps and live the quote: “feel the fear and do it anyway”. I am also inspired by people who live a life they find fulfilling - no matter what it is they do for work, if they are truly happy and can go to bed feeling a sense of fulfillment each day then that is an inspiration to me. That’s the kind of person I want to be. Not to get all mushy, but yeah - you already are that kind of person. And you have been for some time. And it is inspirational. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2018 6:52:10 GMT -5
Today's question:
How difficult is it for you to admit you are wrong?
How about for your partner?
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Post by nyctos on Oct 24, 2018 15:26:57 GMT -5
Today's question: How difficult is it for you to admit you are wrong? How about for your partner? I admit I'm wrong pretty easily. My partner never does. Even when she apologizes. |
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Post by sadkat on Oct 24, 2018 16:05:30 GMT -5
That’s a tough question. If you’d ask my husband, he’d tell you I never admit when I’m wrong. In all fairness, he usually gets my defenses up and, yeah- I’ll never admit I’m wrong even though I know perfectly well I am. My h is always right- so there’s that too! With anyone other than my h, I’m willing to consider opposing arguments and admit I’m wrong if it turns out I am wrong.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 24, 2018 17:06:54 GMT -5
Today's question: How difficult is it for you to admit you are wrong? How about for your partner? Easy, I think. Except that I’m never wrong... ;-) Some days, it seems like half my job is apologizing for my company’s failures and mapping get-well plans. Bad news doesn’t improve with age; get it out early, and have a plan to make good and prevent a repeat. It doesn’t mean you’ll avoid well-deserved lashes, but it breeds trust and loyalty and gives some clout to call bullshit when you really aren’t to blame. That’s instilled some good personal practices too. W... not bad, but definitely looks to deflect / share the blame if she can. |
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Post by h on Oct 25, 2018 9:00:43 GMT -5
Today's question: How difficult is it for you to admit you are wrong? How about for your partner? If someone tells me that I'm wrong and supports that assertion with a reasonable argument, then I will gladly admit my incorrect assumption and usually end up apologizing for any subsequent decisions or assumptions made based on that faulty reasoning. If someone tells me I'm wrong and doesn't provide me with sufficient evidence of such, I ignore it. My W never openly admits when she is wrong. If it becomes blatantly obvious that she is wrong about something, she will usually change her course of action but never talk about the original topic again. Any references to her being incorrect about something are discouraged and purged from history never to be discussed again under threat of a hissy fit. Kind of like a slightly less strict version of the Ministry of Truth in Orwell's 1984... |
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Post by choosinghappy on Oct 25, 2018 9:17:00 GMT -5
I don’t like being wrong but I’ll admit to it when I am. And if it’s major, I have no problem apologizing.
My STBX is never wrong. Just ask him.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2018 9:54:38 GMT -5
Today's question:
Have you ever used social media pretending to be a completely different person than you really are?
If so, why?
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Post by h on Oct 25, 2018 11:03:45 GMT -5
Today's question: Have you ever used social media pretending to be a completely different person than you really are? If so, why? Never done that. W took my tablet once to look someone up and see if she was being trash talked because she got blocked (petty girl drama) but I put a stop to that quick. I'm not going to perpetuate that crap or be included in it. |
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Post by jim44444 on Oct 25, 2018 11:23:58 GMT -5
Today's question: Have you ever used social media pretending to be a completely different person than you really are? If so, why? No but the answer assumes I am self-aware enough to know who I really am. |
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Post by sadkat on Oct 25, 2018 11:38:36 GMT -5
Nope
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