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Post by mr.jones on Oct 1, 2018 6:03:02 GMT -5
Stopped some time ago. W is happy greeting friends with a kiss however
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Post by choosinghappy on Oct 2, 2018 6:57:03 GMT -5
We got to the point where the only contact we had was him occasionally giving me a quick peck on the FOREHEAD. Like I was a child. That’s all he could bring himself to do. It was horrible. While you get the peck on the FOREHEAD, do you get the forward lean? That's the move that earns credit for affection, and yet it is the defensive move against hands around the waist. It's a classic. Oh absolutely. No option for me to touch him even if I wanted to (which I didn’t towards the end anyway). And I told him at one point that I hated when he kissed me on the forehead because it made me feel like he was treating me like a child. He stopped and went back to pecks on the cheek for a month or two and then right back to it. At that point I decided all I would offer him again was my forehead because: fuck him.
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Post by shamwow on Oct 2, 2018 8:57:33 GMT -5
Ewwww
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Post by saarinista on Oct 2, 2018 13:12:55 GMT -5
We do usually mouth peck hello or goodnight at least a few times a week. No foreheads!
But no really kissing in a long long time. I almost think kissing for real is more intimate than sex (or can be) That intimacy and openness left our marriage a long time ago, sadly.
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Post by solodriver on Oct 2, 2018 19:58:48 GMT -5
No pecking here.
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Post by rich on Nov 15, 2018 4:33:29 GMT -5
We still have a quick hug and a peck on the lips every morning but that's all. Damn, I can't even remember what a passionate kiss might be like.
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Post by aguywithneeds on Dec 8, 2018 22:20:44 GMT -5
I used to be sure and kiss good night every night, but now it's a hug, and I'm ok with it. I have given up. I'm finally the caged tiger who's light has left his eyes.
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Post by isthisit on Dec 9, 2018 1:39:56 GMT -5
Nope, no kissing here either save for the dry peck on the cheek which really belongs in the context of greeting your granny. Kissing is the thing I used to miss the most, and have been known to ask for ‘being kissed like a woman’ for my birthday in lieu of a gift. (You guessed it- fell on deaf ears). In common with many posters above I have now moved to a point where this level of intimacy now feels pretty unwelcome with H as I continue to distance myself emotionally in preparation for my new life. This does not mean that I am off kissing, not at all. I do hope that before I die I get to once again experience the undiluted joy of an enthusiastic making out session, preferably including a roaming hand up my jumper too. It doesn’t seem so much to ask.
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Post by saarinista on Dec 16, 2018 14:17:38 GMT -5
I used to be sure and kiss good night every night, but now it's a hug, and I'm ok with it. I have given up. I'm finally the caged tiger who's light has left his eyes. That sounds so depressing when you put it that way- like the light has left your eyes. Please contemplate the reality of that statement, as will I.
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Post by darktippedrose on Dec 18, 2018 15:46:59 GMT -5
I haven't had any kiss what so ever since I was 28? or 27? I don't even remember now.
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Post by javba on Dec 18, 2018 16:01:16 GMT -5
I haven't had any kiss what so ever since I was 28? or 27? I don't even remember now. DTR, my most sincere feelings I don't think your situation is likely to change unless you change it
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Post by carl on Dec 18, 2018 19:31:21 GMT -5
Mmmm. Sad to say no.
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 22, 2018 17:51:55 GMT -5
The ex-wife used to give me a peck before bed every night, but after many years of rejection and strictly no intimate kissing tolerated by her, I started unconsciously turning my cheek at some point and hadn’t even realized I was doing it until she called me out on it years later, all the while she countinued the routine. At this point an intimate kiss would be wonderful, but I'm sure I'd be at least a bit anxious and awkward after not doing so for decades. I willing to die trying though!
I still remember the first time I French kissed a girl. I was 12, she was 15, and she initiated. It was most the amazing thing at that point in my life! We were in Europe, and it was an amazing few months before she moved back home.
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Post by Handy on Dec 22, 2018 20:48:09 GMT -5
JonDoe At this point an intimate kiss would be wonderful, but I'm sure I'd be at least a bit anxious and awkward after not doing so for decades.
I was thinking about the same way. I suppose gradually working into a hot romantic kiss is one way to approach the activity. Some women will go for it and some won't. Going slowly gives you the opportunity to test the waters.
At your age there should be some takers on hot kissing.
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Post by firefollower on Mar 15, 2019 18:49:57 GMT -5
Stopped 10 years ago...turns head (humiliating). I don't even try anymore.
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