*REFUSED* is also available on many podcast players including Google, Apple, Podcast Addict, and Spotify. (Maybe others, go ahead and check!)
If you're here on ILIASM, it appears the Padgemi interview (Episode #3) was appreciated and if you'd like to help the SM community get personal and understand they're truly not alone, maybe you'll consider an interview like it. It's one things to see a story here at ILIASM in black and white, it's another to hear a human voice behind it.
We can use an alias of your alias, have someone else voice over a written interview, or otherwise keep things confidential - if you're more concerned than Padgemi was about keeping your current/former SM on the QT.
I do have two notable volunteers (Hi, you two! I haven't forgotten!), but scheduling has been a bear and I expect it to stay that was through late May, but perhaps someone else can handle daytime interviews.
They'd be done over Zoom, or Skype, no video necessary.
A list of questions to expect can be provided in advance.
"Tell us a bit about your marriage history."
"At what point did you start telling yourself the refusals were a problem?"
"What, if anything, did you do or are you doing to fix the sexlessness / low sex environment (choose the appropriate)?"
"Do you have plans to execute over the coming months of years?"
"If you could, what would you tell yourself (1) before getting married and (2) at the time you noticed the sexlessness problem arising?"
worksforme2: Happy Birthday bballgirl, where ever you are.......
Jul 26, 2022 3:43:06 GMT -5
northstarmom: Thanks for the birthday wishes, worksforme2!
Jul 27, 2022 21:23:48 GMT -5
onempty: Dry Creek, you are absolutely spot on with all this advice. Separate bank accounts a good idea IMO but might be harder to achieve and could cause other problems if there is a huge disparity in income.
Jul 28, 2022 13:03:11 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday GreekGoddess.....
Aug 4, 2022 5:56:47 GMT -5
worksforme2: I am going to dial 911. I need help. Once again, the forest creatures have raided my apple trees and picked them clean..I really am growing weary of feeding all of nature's critters.
Aug 20, 2022 17:55:31 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Best wishes, TMD. Always good to see you.
Aug 31, 2022 17:46:00 GMT -5