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Post by shamwow on Jun 7, 2021 19:24:57 GMT -5
Padgemi:” And I have reason to suspect, deep down, she viewed me more like weak and pathetic rather than sexually attractive.” I would view a man as a pathetic spineless worm not worthy of my love if he kept futility begging me for sex. To me, a manly man worthy of my love would move on not keep begging. I’d have no respect for a man who’d hang around declaring his love after being constantly rejected. And if I loved him romantically I wouldn’t have kept rejecting him. In the hindsight of being 4 years out of my SM I totally agree. However, remembering back to when I was married, I recall two main options...beg and maybe get scraps or go without. I wanted what I'd been promised... To have and to hold forever and ever and wasn't ready to blow things up... From the perspective of a reformed begger, there weren't a lot of options at the rejected husband's disposal. Begging, as sad a sight as it may be, is often the path of least resistance for those not ready to drop the D-bomb.
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Post by flounder on Jun 7, 2021 19:34:41 GMT -5
Padgemi:” And I have reason to suspect, deep down, she viewed me more like weak and pathetic rather than sexually attractive.” I would view a man as a pathetic spineless worm not worthy of my love if he kept futility begging me for sex. To me, a manly man worthy of my love would move on not keep begging. I’d have no respect for a man who’d hang around declaring his love after being constantly rejected. And if I loved him romantically I wouldn’t have kept rejecting him. In the hindsight of being 4 years out of my SM I totally agree. However, remembering back to when I was married, I recall two main options...beg and maybe get scraps or go without. I wanted what I'd been promised... To have and to hold forever and ever and wasn't ready to blow things up... From the perspective of a reformed begger, there weren't a lot of options at the rejected husband's disposal. Begging, as sad a sight as it may be, is often the path of least resistance for those not ready to drop the D-bomb. Hammer meet nail.
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