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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 14, 2023 13:11:04 GMT -5
How would one start outsourcing? I went back and reread your 1st theme,...Joining the club. You have had talks with her to express how unhappy you are about the poor state of intomacy in your marriage. Have you ever broached the subject of having another woman to address your sexual needs. I know the odds are that she will not be receptive to this approach but if you take the approach she will benefit as much as you, she might consider it. After all she won't have to deal with the awful prospect of sex with you. Or if you think she is afraid of losing you to the other woam you might ask her to consider you using a pro say once a month to give you oral. Again she would avoid the prospect of having your penis in her face. I would put it on the table and see how she reacts.
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Post by toughtiger on Aug 14, 2023 14:11:47 GMT -5
I hate all those generic how to rekindle the old flame BS type articles........
All are generally full of it .... only points made are underlying issues. IF by a miracle spouse could be a partner in bad again .... the hurt he has caused by not being truthful or willing to think of me ... i doubt i would welcome his advances....
NOT all women have zero interest in sex.... people do not reach a certain age and that is IT..... not all have issues with menopause my libido kicked up big time and no relief other then battery operated in sight.
IT IS not the partners who was left in a sexless situation fault...shy of extreme issues of hygiene...... BOTH male and female can consult their own doctor for hormones or ed medications.... working through mental blocks thru therapy etc..... BUT refusing when you are making a decision that kills your marriage places all blame in my book on the dead fish partner.
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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 15, 2023 11:00:04 GMT -5
How would one start outsourcing? You can "Google" anything, including this. There are numerous articles written specifically addressing this subject. Many offer advice on how to avoid being found out. I suggest you google this and start reading Good luck
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