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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2016 11:36:16 GMT -5
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Post by beachguy on Oct 21, 2016 16:36:25 GMT -5
I have to admit that subconsciously I have difficulty believing women are sexual. But then I had 30 years of intensive training in that idea  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2016 17:41:11 GMT -5
I'll attest as the low libido partner in my relationship (yes you read that right), highly sexual women can sound very boring on paper. So much for paper.
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Post by beachguy on Oct 21, 2016 18:03:44 GMT -5
I'll attest as the low libido partner in my relationship (yes you read that right), highly sexual women can sound very boring on paper. So much for paper. You really need to post your story in your own post. You're a bit of an enigma  |
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Post by baza on Oct 21, 2016 18:11:34 GMT -5
Anecdote.
The first root I ever had was all over seconds after entry.
I was 17, she was 20 odd.
The second root I ever had (same chick, about an hour later) was a much more relaxed and exploratory exercise.
We were going at it when all of a sudden she went as stiff as a board, started yelling out and convulsing.
I thought she was having some sort of fit !!!!
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My introduction to a sexual woman !!!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2016 18:20:55 GMT -5
I'll attest as the low libido partner in my relationship (yes you read that right), highly sexual women can sound very boring on paper. So much for paper. You really need to post your story in your own post. You're a bit of an enigma I've tried, it's such a soap opera I didn't even know where to start. Things have mostly settled down now. I'm just in a good deal with a lovely lady whose sex drive exceeds mine. Perhaps I should say I am the lowER libido partner LOL. |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 23, 2016 2:22:52 GMT -5
You really need to post your story in your own post. You're a bit of an enigma I've tried, it's such a soap opera I didn't even know where to start. Things have mostly settled down now. I'm just in a good deal with a lovely lady whose sex drive exceeds mine. Perhaps I should say I am the lowER libido partner LOL. You are a very blessed man my friend. Please help show her the passion she so desires or she may show up in our group.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Oct 23, 2016 9:20:11 GMT -5
Good article. Ladies in ILIASM may know the info but I feel like "society" still spends a fair bit of effort trying to shame us for it. And amazed that we have preferences separate from what a man feels or thinks of us. We are not objects. We are people. People should be free to have preferences.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2016 10:55:28 GMT -5
I'm a man and not into casual sex. I'm a very sexual person, maybe a little kinky but probably more adventurous and willing to try things is a better description. I'm the same way in life. I like to eat different foods and will try various activities. The most sexy thing for me is a woman who is comfortable with herself and just lets go and is in the moment. No thinking, just doing and being present. I do not think men and women are that different sexually.
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Post by Dan on Nov 10, 2016 22:16:36 GMT -5
The author just about lost me early on with this:
"Our view of women as less sexual stems from our view of women as less human."
First of all -- serious pet-peeve of mine -- the indefinite pronoun reference: "our" refers to which "we"? I honestly can't tell WHO she thinks holds these views.
Secondly: say what? I really don't think "less sexual" equates to "less human". Or vice-versa. Nor do I think anyone thinks that way. Maybe it is indulging in a it of hyperbole... but even then I don't see the point of this comment. I just don't think that is a useful diagnosis of the situation.
Then -- throughout the article -- I honestly was trying to figure out:
Does this author think that women are "just as sexual as men", but socially repressed not to *show* it... so it just *seems* like women are "less sexual"?
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Does this author admit that fewer women are as sexual as most men... and we at least need to accept that this *portion* of women are "just as sexual as men"; not burden them with the unfortunate broad brush that *all* women are "not so sexual".
Since I couldn't decode where she was coming from, the whole article seemed to "drift" for me. I mean, isn't she almost relying on some sexual stereotype of men to try to dispel a sexual stereotype of women?
One useful thing she points out is that "being sexual" (having a sexual appetite and being able to speak comfortably about it publicly) should NOT be conflated with being kinky or promiscuous. Sure, that is a good point: we shouldn't have that stereotype about openly sexual women... but we shouldn't have that stereotype about openly sexual men, either.
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Post by beachguy on Nov 11, 2016 12:21:16 GMT -5
The author just about lost me early on with this: "Our view of women as less sexual stems from our view of women as less human."
I for one am tired of feminists portraying their bigotry by telling me what this male thinks. Perhaps a 30 year SM drives my view of women as less sexual? Plus the legions of similar stories we've all heard? No offense to our very fine but possibly sexual outlying ladies here . Stereotypes are always dangerous but sometimes I can only respond to BS in kind |
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Post by csl on Nov 11, 2016 15:35:48 GMT -5
The author just about lost me early on with this: "Our view of women as less sexual stems from our view of women as less human."
I for one am tired of feminists portraying their bigotry by telling me what this male thinks. So,... femsplaining predates mansplaining as a thing? |
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Post by beachguy on Nov 11, 2016 15:40:03 GMT -5
I for one am tired of feminists portraying their bigotry by telling me what this male thinks. So,... femsplaining predates mansplaining as a thing? I don't need to argue the History of the World to justify the idea that the quoted passage is feminist bullshit. I won't take your bait |
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Post by JonDoe on Nov 11, 2016 17:34:28 GMT -5
I'll attest as the low libido partner in my relationship (yes you read that right), highly sexual women can sound very boring on paper. So much for paper. How about on satin or silk? |
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