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Post by wewbwb on Feb 20, 2017 17:58:36 GMT -5
Besides, she's hot. Just saying.
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 20, 2017 18:38:21 GMT -5
But showing a true profile picture involves one picking something suitable. How many of us are our own worst critics? I will leave this one up for a day.
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Post by WindSister on Feb 20, 2017 19:20:49 GMT -5
But showing a true profile picture involves one picking something suitable. How many of us are our own worst critics? I will leave this one up for a day. You inspire me. One day here too. 
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Post by GeekGoddess on Feb 20, 2017 19:38:25 GMT -5
Thanks, wewbwb!! And - jim44444 - I always criticize my own pics, but I ignore that and post anyway. WindSister - you are glorious! Just: something so happy beaming from you!
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 20, 2017 19:45:56 GMT -5
But showing a true profile picture involves one picking something suitable. How many of us are our own worst critics? I will leave this one up for a day. You inspire me. One day here too. Inspire, corrupt - whatever. I remembered your picture from EP. You are still "glorious" as GeekGoddess said.
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Post by WindSister on Feb 20, 2017 20:12:58 GMT -5
You guys are too kind to a gal's ego. Thank you. Just happy and content with life finally. i appreciate seeing those of you who share. You are all fabulous!! 😊
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Post by Dan on Feb 20, 2017 22:08:31 GMT -5
I'm still "in the closet" re: dealing with my SM; she knows it is an issue, but not about how we are dangerously plodding steadily toward a divorce. I guess I figure she should hear it from me before some mutual acquaintance sees my pic and asks her what's that about. So, no, no photo as my avatar at this time. Probably would be willing once I move on. However, I have been told recently: "I think you did a good job depicting yourself in your cartoon avatar!" So with that, you should be apparently be able to pick me out of a crowd... here, click this and look for me in this:
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Post by smilin61 on Feb 20, 2017 22:40:19 GMT -5
When I came to EP and discovered that my stbx's feelings about sex/intimacy/connection had very little to do with what I was or wasn't doing.... I had to make a decision. Was I prepared to continue pretending that we had a good relationship or was I going to own my future in a way that was genuine? It really wasn't a question since I suck at pretense. I talked to friends, family and anyone on the forum that would listen...and I told him what the group was about. Learning to be honest with myself and not feel ashamed was my goal. Saying that this is what I'm dealing with, this is my life, this is what I think, this is how I feel, is the only way I know how to do that. For me, posting my picture was a big part of saying "I am enough". Even though I had no idea that was what I needed at the time, it felt right. Doing that small thing just for me was an important part of reclaiming myself. My journey is unique - do what feels right for you.
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Post by itsjustus on Feb 20, 2017 22:50:42 GMT -5
Doing that small thing just for me was an important part of reclaiming myself
This
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Post by warmways on Feb 21, 2017 2:03:06 GMT -5
I'm not that worried if he were to see my pic. I don't think I've ever posted a pic of myself. I will try right now. The snoring is really keeping me awake.
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Post by warmways on Feb 21, 2017 2:05:59 GMT -5
Here's one I took recently with one of my cats. 
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Post by baza on Feb 21, 2017 3:21:36 GMT -5
this is me.  ![]()
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 3:40:29 GMT -5
Ooo I love seeing people  . I'll do mine for a day again 
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 3:40:55 GMT -5
this is me. ![]() Hiya Baza  xx
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 3:42:20 GMT -5
You inspire me. One day here too. Inspire, corrupt - whatever. I remembered your picture from EP. You are still "glorious" as GeekGoddess said. Hi Jim  x
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