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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 3:50:39 GMT -5
Here's one I took recently with one of my cats.  I love this pic WW  your cat is sooooo in love with you! Xxx |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 4:11:28 GMT -5
It is hard to believe you women are or were in a SM. You all, without exception, look fantastic. Eternaloptimism could have gone for a picture which showed a bit more of her face but I can tell she is lovely. My fellow brothers look great too but I was a bit too distracted to go over them closely |
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Post by tamara68 on Feb 21, 2017 4:13:29 GMT -5
I like my avator, maybe if I can make a nice pic I would put that up.
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Post by petrushka on Feb 21, 2017 4:35:52 GMT -5
I like my avator, maybe if I can make a nice pic I would put that up. Don't tell me you don't own a tripod?!? A great photographer like you should not have a problem producing a stellar photo  (I like your avatar, too, it's so very cool, b.t.w.) |
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Post by tamara68 on Feb 21, 2017 4:54:11 GMT -5
I like my avator, maybe if I can make a nice pic I would put that up. Don't tell me you don't own a tripod?!? A great photographer like you should not have a problem producing a stellar photo (I like your avatar, too, it's so very cool, b.t.w.) I have a tripod since recently But getting the subject positioned to my satisfaction is not that easy lol |
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 21, 2017 5:54:08 GMT -5
And again I'm feeling stupid. For the life of me, I look at the pictures of warmways @smiling61 , WindSister eternaloptimism @geekgoddess and every other woman I've been lucky enough to see on the forum and say to myself "they have to be on the wrong website" They must have been looking for "my partner keeps touching me and doesn't stop". The forum topics are "underwear, why bother he keeps tearing them off me" And "he makes me late for everything because he won't let me get dressed" And "why do I wake up sticky?" These are the topics these sexy women should be complaining about. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 5:57:47 GMT -5
And again I'm feeling stupid. For the life of me, I look at the pictures of warmways @smiling61 , WindSister eternaloptimism @geekgoddess and every other woman I've been lucky enough to see on the forum and say to myself "they have to be on the wrong website" They must have been looking for "my partner keeps touching me and doesn't stop". The forum topics are "underwear, why bother he keeps tearing them off me" And "he makes me late for everything because he won't let me get dressed" And "why do I wake up sticky?" These are the topics these sexy women should be complaining about. very well put. precisely! |
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 21, 2017 7:29:20 GMT -5
this is me. ![]() , Thanks for not posting the one with the infamous arseless leather chaps. |
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Post by WindSister on Feb 21, 2017 7:40:31 GMT -5
When I came to EP and discovered that my stbx's feelings about sex/intimacy/connection had very little to do with what I was or wasn't doing.... I had to make a decision. Was I prepared to continue pretending that we had a good relationship or was I going to own my future in a way that was genuine? It really wasn't a question since I suck at pretense. I talked to friends, family and anyone on the forum that would listen...and I told him what the group was about. Learning to be honest with myself and not feel ashamed was my goal. Saying that this is what I'm dealing with, this is my life, this is what I think, this is how I feel, is the only way I know how to do that. For me, posting my picture was a big part of saying "I am enough". Even though I had no idea that was what I needed at the time, it felt right. Doing that small thing just for me was an important part of reclaiming myself. My journey is unique - do what feels right for you. Inspiring! I resonate deeply with your message and while I have made great strides my ole insecurities surface at times. I'm always working on it. I love your authenticity! You are clearly a beautiful person. Wish you the best!! |
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Post by WindSister on Feb 21, 2017 7:41:35 GMT -5
baza nice to see you finally!!!! Hi!
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Post by WindSister on Feb 21, 2017 9:41:31 GMT -5
And again I'm feeling stupid. For the life of me, I look at the pictures of warmways @smiling61 , WindSister eternaloptimism @geekgoddess and every other woman I've been lucky enough to see on the forum and say to myself "they have to be on the wrong website" They must have been looking for "my partner keeps touching me and doesn't stop". The forum topics are "underwear, why bother he keeps tearing them off me" And "he makes me late for everything because he won't let me get dressed" And "why do I wake up sticky?" These are the topics these sexy women should be complaining about. Since I see my name here, I feel compelled to respond. I didn't post to get compliments, just to show my face, who I am - but I have learned when a compliment is given I am supposed to say thank you, so thank you! Everyone is beautiful here - they are pursuing an authentic life of love, life, intimacy - passion! enthusiasm! In my case size/looks just didn't matter. My ex saw me at my best and definitely witnessed me not only at my worse but GET to my worse (it wasn't pretty.... eating, eating, eating, sleeping all day on Saturdays... total depression). He didn't want sex with me at any stage (sex 2 times the first year we were married, then not for 10 years and once during our "working it out phase.") My depression/anxiety/fat years was after a fairly tragic event in our lives that he was emotionally closed off to and he didn't show the care and concern for me that one would hope from a partner. He was playing video games. When I "woke up" to life I started to work on myself, loving myself, living and pursuing passions hoping my husband would join me (obviously he didn't). When we were "working on it" towards the end, the thing he focused on was those two years I was fat/depressed, stating that he was turned off by me at that time and if he could have, he would have cheated on me. By "could have" he meant if some sexy chick just landed on his video-game playing, Dorito-eating lap (she didn't). He was too passive to even go out and get a woman to cheat on me with. Never mind at the time of the conversation, when we were working on it, I had lost the weight. So it was an excuse. Always an excuse. At the very end I got a dig, though. I told him he didn't live the kind of lifestyle that allows for him to have a hot wife. You get the life you live. Simple as that. His comment did mess with a me a bit when I would get rejected during dating - that feeling of "not being enough" truly does suck and we all walk away with a little of that from years of rejection. But now I am with a man who loves me, and I mean TRULY loves me, and shows it in many ways to include regular sex - even when I gained some weight. We are connected intimately and emotionally in and out of the bedroom. He supports and encourages me and challenges me at times, too (as I do for him). We are better people together. He is an ACTIVE, warm-bodied participant in our life and that feels amazing to me. I will never take it for granted. We were insatiable as far as sex goes in the beginning. We aren't doing it five times a day now or anything - but it's regular (weekly) and what we both want/need. He has even made love to me (many times) at his MOMs house (with his kids/grands/sisters/brothers and others all there as well!) We can be very quiet when needed. (My ex, when we were dating, lived with his mom and even if she was gone he wouldn't have sex with me there -- I should have run!!!). |
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Post by itsjustus on Feb 21, 2017 11:41:07 GMT -5
HI!!   |
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 21, 2017 12:14:42 GMT -5
I told him he didn't live the kind of lifestyle that allows for him to have a hot wife. Best line ever. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 12:46:50 GMT -5
It is hard to believe you women are or were in a SM. You all, without exception, look fantastic. Eternaloptimism could have gone for a picture which showed a bit more of her face but I can tell she is lovely. My fellow brothers look great too but I was a bit too distracted to go over them closely The stein was better looking  x |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 21, 2017 12:47:31 GMT -5
HI!! I almost didn't recognise you without your sunflowers xx |
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your cat is sooooo in love with you! Xxx
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