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Post by seabr33z3 on May 15, 2017 13:57:11 GMT -5
This might seem hypocritical coming from one who has been dyeing their hair for years, but guys for anyone thinking of getting back into the dating scene, please....stay au naturale.
I am currently watching a salt and pepper friend starting to dye his hair. I hate it. I don't want to offend him, but IMO girls generally don't care if you are going grey or thinning out.
Grey can be sexy. Bald can be sexy. If you have lost more hair than remains, just shave it off.
I guess it can be tempting to try to look younger. But guess what? You don't look younger, you just look like a guy who dyes his hair.
I don't mean to offend anyone, in fact it's the opposite. Embrace your changes. Have confidence in yourself. I'm sure the other ladies would agree that it's the whole package that's important. Your hair or lack thereof does not define you.
I hope my friend sees sense and it's just a short phase.
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Post by wewbwb on May 15, 2017 14:46:52 GMT -5
This might seem hypocritical coming from one who has been dyeing their hair for years, but guys for anyone thinking of getting back into the dating scene, please....stay au naturale. I am currently watching a salt and pepper friend starting to dye his hair. I hate it. I don't want to offend him, but IMO girls generally don't care if you are going grey or thinning out. Grey can be sexy. Bald can be sexy. If you have lost more hair than remains, just shave it off. I guess it can be tempting to try to look younger. But guess what? You don't look younger, you just look like a guy who dyes his hair. I don't mean to offend anyone, in fact it's the opposite. Embrace your changes. Have confidence in yourself. I'm sure the other ladies would agree that it's the whole package that's important. Your hair or lack thereof does not define you. I hope my friend sees sense and it's just a short phase. I don't dye my hair or try to look younger because I don't have the fucks to give. If I need to be someone else to be attractive to someone maybe they should look elsewhere. ZFG. |
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Post by scrimshaw on May 15, 2017 17:15:19 GMT -5
This might seem hypocritical coming from one who has been dyeing their hair for years, but guys for anyone thinking of getting back into the dating scene, please....stay au naturale. Heh, as l am oft to say, reason #5,782 I'm glad I was born male. Literally, I do nothing to my hair and beard except wash them. Every two weeks I pay $14 to have a nice Vietnamese woman give me 0.5 buzz and trim my beard. I don't have to comb, or use product, or do anything to my hair, and I never shave. My 'hair' would I think be light brown and grey, it's not been longer than prolly 1/8" in over 15 years. My beard is grey in front with some red on my cheekbones and light brown elsewhere. I've gotten several compliments on my beard. No danger of me ever dying my hair, I'm WAY too lazy for that! :-) |
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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2017 17:27:02 GMT -5
Ditch the Just For Men, guys. Silver is the shit.
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Post by McRoomMate on May 15, 2017 17:35:11 GMT -5
Hmm, Well I still got most of my hair but this TOUPEE of the DAY . . .
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on May 15, 2017 18:49:14 GMT -5
I was actually just talking to a friend of mine about this the other day. He was thinking of growing his hair out to tie a man bun on top to hide his thinning hair.
Then I showed him how fucking hot it can look to have a smooth bald head and good facial hair.
He has since decided to start growing his beard out. Still undecided if he is ready to commit to fully bald, which I can understand as he is quite young (he is only 28) to be balding as much as he is, but you work with what you get!
I'm only 26 and I have a few silvers hanging around, I love them! Silver is in right now anyway so I say come-on silver streak, bring it at me!
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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2017 19:10:49 GMT -5
I happen to find bald and balding men very attractive. No idea why....I just do.
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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2017 19:25:27 GMT -5
I happen to find bald and balding men very attractive. No idea why....I just do. I know exactly why I find bald men so attractive. I watched Kojak as a kid. Who loves ya, baby? |
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Post by GeekGoddess on May 15, 2017 20:07:46 GMT -5
I happen to find bald and balding men very attractive. No idea why....I just do. I know exactly why I find bald men so attractive. I watched Kojak as a kid. Who loves ya, baby? Me too on this one. There are heads (or shapes) that don't look that good bald, but most of them are fine & I find those handsome. |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 15, 2017 20:36:02 GMT -5
I love to tell people "I'm just growing taller than my hair, or My forehead keeps growing".
I've been told both, shave it down, let it grow.
It's one of those, "It's bad, but not bad enough". 4 or 5 yrs ago I would let my kids cut my hair. A buzz cut. Then when I let it grow back out I heard way more " That looks much better".
Since H.S. I've had a rectangular shaped face, large forehead with recessions at the front of the hair line , leaving that "crest" in the center.
A surf in the ocean reveals the balding area, the salty water makes it a mess, and if I don't lotion it down with some waterproof sunscreen, Oh the burn! (skin cancer too)
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Post by Deleted on May 15, 2017 21:01:28 GMT -5
I happen to find bald and balding men very attractive. No idea why....I just do. I know exactly why I find bald men so attractive. I watched Kojak as a kid. Who loves ya, baby? Oh, yeah. I remember Kojak! |
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Post by wewbwb on May 15, 2017 21:14:14 GMT -5
I was actually just talking to a friend of mine about this the other day. He was thinking of growing his hair out to tie a man bun on top to hide his thinning hair. Then I showed him how fucking hot it can look to have a smooth bald head and good facial hair. He has since decided to start growing his beard out. Still undecided if he is ready to commit to fully bald, which I can understand as he is quite young (he is only 28) to be balding as much as he is, but you work with what you get! I'm only 26 and I have a few silvers hanging around, I love them! Silver is in right now anyway so I say come-on silver streak, bring it at me! Do you know what looks great with a man bun? Neither do I. They suck. |
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Post by wewbwb on May 15, 2017 21:19:42 GMT -5
I happen to find bald and balding men very attractive. No idea why....I just do. I know exactly why I find bald men so attractive. I watched Kojak as a kid. Who loves ya, baby? Great. I'm more of the "Columbo" type. Without his fashion sense. Fml. |
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Post by hopingforachange on May 16, 2017 1:28:20 GMT -5
I was actually just talking to a friend of mine about this the other day. He was thinking of growing his hair out to tie a man bun on top to hide his thinning hair. Then I showed him how fucking hot it can look to have a smooth bald head and good facial hair. He has since decided to start growing his beard out. Still undecided if he is ready to commit to fully bald, which I can understand as he is quite young (he is only 28) to be balding as much as he is, but you work with what you get! I'm only 26 and I have a few silvers hanging around, I love them! Silver is in right now anyway so I say come-on silver streak, bring it at me! Man bun? Just say no! I do have one friend that was balding in highschool but he is 6'10" so not too many people realized it unless they were looking for on him. |
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Post by northstarmom on May 16, 2017 6:26:34 GMT -5
I find totally bald men hot. Silver haired men like my post sm boyfriend are hot. Men with full heads of ponytailed grey hair are hot. Man buns are not hot. Men who dye their grey hair are not hot. Men with beards or goatees are hot. Men wearing one earring are hot. Men with gauges are not hot. Men with chest hair and crinkles around their eyes are hot. Smokers stink and are not hot. Men who shave their pubes are not hot. Fortunately I've never seen one in real life.
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