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Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 19:43:38 GMT -5 via mobile Rhapsodee and solodriver like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2017 19:43:38 GMT -5 I just got off the phone with my father. My mother's cancer has gotten worse; it's stage 4. I feel kind of numb; I'm still taking it in.

misssunnybunny Senior Members Posts: 1,613 Age Range: 51-55	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 19:47:38 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by misssunnybunny on Jun 8, 2017 19:47:38 GMT -5 So very sorry to hear this. Sending positive energy...{{hugs}}
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Jun 8, 2017 19:43:38 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

I just got off the phone with my father. My mother's cancer has gotten worse; it's stage 4.

I feel kind of numb; I'm still taking it in.

I'm sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.

jim44444 Senior Members Posts: 1,510 Age Range: 70+	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 20:03:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jim44444 on Jun 8, 2017 20:03:44 GMT -5 I am sorry to hear this.
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obobfla Senior Members Trying to keep all the balls in the air Posts: 1,143 Age Range: 56-60	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 20:18:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by obobfla on Jun 8, 2017 20:18:10 GMT -5 I am so sorry to hear about this @smartkat. My thoughts are with you and your family.

northstarmom Senior Members Posts: 4,357	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 20:21:35 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by northstarmom on Jun 8, 2017 20:21:35 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, Kat.

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 20:36:59 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2017 20:36:59 GMT -5 I'm sorry to hear the battle your family is facing, Kat. The coming months will most certainly be a struggle, and I wish you strength and comfort. Hugs, my friend.

TMD Senior Members Posts: 669 Age Range: 41-45	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 21:49:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TMD on Jun 8, 2017 21:49:30 GMT -5 So sorry to read your news. Sending hugs.
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jpn Junior Member Brrrrrrrrr... Posts: 75 Age Range: 46-50	Bad news Jun 8, 2017 21:53:49 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jpn on Jun 8, 2017 21:53:49 GMT -5 @smartkat, I'm sorry you and your family are going through this battle. My thoughts and heart are with you and your family. sending big hug

lyn Senior Members Posts: 634	Bad news Jun 9, 2017 0:32:59 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lyn on Jun 9, 2017 0:32:59 GMT -5 Oh honey - I'm so sorry

merrygoround Full Member Posts: 318	Bad news Jun 9, 2017 1:44:49 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by merrygoround on Jun 9, 2017 1:44:49 GMT -5 I'm so very sorry and sending you hugs x

eternaloptimism Senior Members Posts: 3,096 Age Range: 41-45	Bad news Jun 9, 2017 2:14:48 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 9, 2017 2:14:48 GMT -5 Shit SK. I'm so sorry to hear this. Are you nearby? Poor Mum Sending you all love hugs and strength. Xxxx
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solodriver Senior Members Emotionally Seperated Posts: 1,697 Age Range: 56-60	Bad news Jun 9, 2017 3:07:35 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by solodriver on Jun 9, 2017 3:07:35 GMT -5 Kat, I'm so very sorry. Prayers and hugs to you my dear friend.
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Jun 8, 2017 19:43:38 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

I just got off the phone with my father. My mother's cancer has gotten worse; it's stage 4.

I feel kind of numb; I'm still taking it in.

Oh no. I am so sorry. There is nothing as hard as watching those we love suffer and their health decline.

Sending much love.

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