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Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 28, 2017 11:25:36 GMT -5 WindSister and workingonit like this

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Post by wewbwb on Jul 28, 2017 11:25:36 GMT -5

qz.com/1034450/accepting-your-darkest-emotions-is-the-key-to-psychological-health/?utm_source=parPS

After a lot of therapy and "soul searching" me embracing my darkness is apparently healthy.

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Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 28, 2017 13:14:30 GMT -5 tamara68 likes this

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However, psychological studies have shown that acceptance of those negative emotions is the more reliable route to regaining and maintaining peace of mind. Whether practiced through the lens of ancient Eastern philosophies, or in increasingly popular forms of treatment like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy, acceptance of one’s dark emotions is now backed by a body of evidence connecting the habit to better emotional resilience, and fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety.

Yes to all of that and I speak from experience.

Those who feel lovable, who love, and who experience belonging simply believe they are worthy of love and belonging. - Brene Brown

wewbwb Senior Members But I could be wrong... Posts: 6,438	Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 28, 2017 15:19:15 GMT -5 tamara68, scrimshaw, and 2 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wewbwb on Jul 28, 2017 15:19:15 GMT -5
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Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 29, 2017 21:46:37 GMT -5 via mobile wewbwb likes this

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Jul 28, 2017 11:25:36 GMT -5 wewbwb said:

qz.com/1034450/accepting-your-darkest-emotions-is-the-key-to-psychological-health/?utm_source=parPS

After a lot of therapy and "soul searching" me embracing my darkness is apparently healthy.

Embracing our "shadow" and "light" is when we become a whole person. It's also acknowleding the shadow/dark side, but maintaining control of it. Congratulations!

wewbwb Senior Members But I could be wrong... Posts: 6,438	Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 30, 2017 7:43:04 GMT -5 workingonit likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wewbwb on Jul 30, 2017 7:43:04 GMT -5 The dichotomy of human psychology has always fascinated me.
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ironhamster Senior Members 25 year SM veteran. Happily Divorced. Posts: 2,627	Apparently I'm Healthy Jul 30, 2017 10:09:23 GMT -5 via mobile wewbwb likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ironhamster on Jul 30, 2017 10:09:23 GMT -5 I've tried explaining this to my wife. I honestly don't think she has a dark side, or a streak of bad girl in her.

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Apparently I'm Healthy

Post by wewbwb on Jul 28, 2017 11:25:36 GMT -5

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