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Post by choosinghappy on Nov 13, 2017 0:30:30 GMT -5
I got around to thinking about the ways being in an unhappy relationship holds me back for a multitude of reasons. So I sat down and thought: What is it that *I* truly want to do? And it's not a crazy list. In fact, it's very do-able. So I think I should start doing it, don't you?
Get together with friends more often
Pilot a small plane
Hot air balloon ride
Bungee jump again
More travel
Attend Concerts/Shows
Make plans on weekends (and actually follow through even if there's bad traffic/lots of people)
Go camping
More hiking/geocaching
Snorkeling in open water
Helicopter ride
What's on your bucket list?
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Post by choosinghappy on Nov 13, 2017 1:04:07 GMT -5
Oops left one off:
Have amazing sex š
There, done. Lol
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Post by northstarmom on Nov 13, 2017 9:03:58 GMT -5
Going to Iceland and seeing the northern lights. Sitting another 3 week silent retreat.
While married, returning to Paris, riding a horse, a hot air balloon ride and having sex again were on my list, too, but Iāve done those with Post sm lover
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Post by jim44444 on Nov 13, 2017 13:24:44 GMT -5
choosinghappy Your bucket list I have done and look forward to doing again except for two. Pilot a small plane - nope, leave that to the pro. I like being the passenger. Bungee jump - OH HELL NO!
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Nov 15, 2017 2:41:18 GMT -5
Here is mine, as best as I can say right now:
- Retain my ability to drive long enough to teach my boy how to drive a car. This may sound strange but hereās the story. I have Parkinsonās disease, had it for 11 years. My boy is 11 now. The last year has not been good as far as my disease progression goes, a bit more than I anticipated. So basically, Iām hoping that I will still be able to drive in another 5 years so I can teach my boy how to drive.
- I want to work for as long as I can. At some point my disease will progress to the point where I will no longer be able to work. I want to work as long as possible. I like contributing and I enjoy my job.
- I want to be financially independent so that I am not a burden to my kids.
I know this isnāt your typical ābucket listā but when you get an incurable and degenerative disease and you have kids, your bucket list starts to change. But for me, if I can check these off my list before I die, then I will happier then I would be if I bought a sports car, bungee jumped, or got a tattoo.
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Post by choosinghappy on Nov 15, 2017 7:15:26 GMT -5
I know this isnāt your typical ābucket listā but when you get an incurable and degenerative disease and you have kids, your bucket list starts to change. But for me, if I can check these off my list before I die, then I will happier then I would be if I bought a sports car, bungee jumped, or got a tattoo. Those are good goals LIW. (((Hug))) |
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Post by hopingforachange on Nov 15, 2017 7:59:16 GMT -5
Join the mile high club
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Post by northstarmom on Nov 15, 2017 10:59:15 GMT -5
āBut for me, if I can check these off my list before I die, then I will happier then I would be if I bought a sports car, bungee jumped, or got a tattoo.ā
Sounds like good goals for many including for healthy people.
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Post by choosinghappy on Nov 15, 2017 15:25:59 GMT -5
Gah. I donāt even like going to the bathroom in an airplane bathroom. |
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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Nov 15, 2017 15:49:56 GMT -5
Attend a soccer world cup final
Run an ultramarathon
Fishing in the subarctic
Threesome (no hate)
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Post by northstarmom on Nov 15, 2017 16:34:01 GMT -5
āthen I will happier then I would be if I bought a sports car, bungee jumped, or got a tattoo.ā
Woodinville, Getting the tattoo seems the easiest to do on your list. When will you get yours?
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Post by hopingforachange on Nov 15, 2017 21:40:16 GMT -5
Gah. I donāt even like going to the bathroom in an airplane bathroom. I'm sure you'd enjoy the time in there. |
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Post by choosinghappy on Nov 15, 2017 23:50:42 GMT -5
Gah. I donāt even like going to the bathroom in an airplane bathroom. I'm sure you'd enjoy the time in there. Iām pretty adventurous but I think I can give a definitive ānoā to that one. But sitting in first class under a blanket with the lights turned down and everyone keeping to themselves while my partners hand slips down under the blanket... thatās a horse of a different color š |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 16, 2017 8:02:55 GMT -5
- see the northern lights
- visit santorini, Greece
- back to Paris at least once
- have another child
- fall in love again and experience love with someone who treasure me, desire me and truly love me
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Post by tamara68 on Nov 18, 2017 9:43:53 GMT -5
Yesterday I have been to a nudist resort for the first time, and enjoyed swimming naked. It was not on my bucket list but it was really fun. I recommend it.
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