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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 27, 2019 8:04:57 GMT -5
Well eeman we have something in common. Like you I had finally given up (for the moment)on intimacy with the W. I was distancing myself from her and just preparing to cohabitate until I'd had time to really put together an exit plan. Well she made the decision she wanted to separate, relieving me of the bad guy status. We did so very amiably and we remain friends. Good luck going forward....
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 27, 2019 8:39:16 GMT -5
One thing most of the refused don’t consider is that refusing may be part of their spouse’s exit plan. Another thing most refused don’t consider is that the decision to stay isn’t just up to them.
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Post by 2019change on Jun 28, 2019 9:05:55 GMT -5
If this is only an issue every 18 month then why not let it blow up. A good vent and and tell her exactly what you think and why. Then it can go back to normal for another couple of years. The question is, why do you want to keep the peace and hide from it. Will she grind up glass and put it in your food. What does she have to punish you with
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Post by angeleyes65 on Jul 15, 2019 16:20:51 GMT -5
eeman I'm coming late to the party life has been hectic. I was the one to have to make the break and as detached as I had made myself it was the hardest thing I had to do so far So I say congratulations consider yourself lucky and as one that is on the other side life is absolutely great without the emotional anchor around my neck. Never too late to be happy wish I could have been string enough to choose it at 40. I was 52 when I left still well worth it!
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