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Post by lessingham on Feb 16, 2020 6:09:36 GMT -5
Reminded of the Christmas song by Greg Lake, be it heaven or hell, the christmas you get you deserve. Same with birthdays. The choices I make or don't take give me tbis birthday. So........ 2020 will be a year of the difficult choices and tbe roads less travelled!
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Post by worksforme2 on Feb 16, 2020 7:29:48 GMT -5
Feliz couplianyos lessingham,....watch out for the bomb cyclone.....
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Post by lessingham on Feb 17, 2020 3:48:44 GMT -5
We got the rain. And more rain. But we are British and can deal with that. Had a fine sushi meal for my birthday which was a new gastronomic adventure. Her lady bits were "sore" so no sex.
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Post by lessingham on Feb 18, 2020 10:04:03 GMT -5
Home again and a sexlife!!! The rented apartment wifi would not connect to porn. Now I can pull my pud in the downstairs toilet to my heart's content
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Post by mirrororchid on Feb 28, 2020 7:35:14 GMT -5
My birthday this weekend. She booked us in a city I have never wanted to see, after rejecting all my suggestions. Apparently my son wants to go there. She has forgotten to book a birthday meal. There is no parking at the accommodation. She has booked no treats. There will be no sex (strange bed, strange place , son in next room, people will hear etc). Today she is paying to have her hair cut, 100 quid. I am so desperately nailing on a smile. Yesterday she announced she wants Venice for her birthday. I long to kiss her at the airport as she flies off to Venice and I catch a plane to Pattaya. Worth it for the look on her face! Venice? 100 quid hairdos? I guess we know why she stays in the marriage. What if you offered to send her to Pattaya on your birthday AND Venice on hers, you get to stay home both times. Same cost, but more peace. Either that or plan your birthday well in advance and have the web site send itineraries to you both. Done deal. Something you'd be willing to budget for. Simple. Maybe short in duration if that's your preference. Stay local if that makes the most sense. Making your birthday a second celebration for her is gobsmackingly rude. Not even pretense there. A joke I heard at work once: "Why is divorce so expensive?" "Cuz it's worth it." |
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Post by northstarmom on Feb 28, 2020 9:08:21 GMT -5
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Either that or plan your birthday well in advance and have the web site send itineraries to you both. Done deal.”
Even better: just do what you want on your birthday and do it without her. Give her the same option.
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