Post by northstarmom on Feb 19, 2020 11:31:24 GMT -5
Some help for the men here who are afraid of divorcing because bad as life is with your refuser, she’s your only friend.
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“ It’s simple to ask a co-worker to coffee or lunch. Drinks after hours is a bigger ask, but lunch dudeing can lead to drinks dudeing. My most foolproof tactic has been to swing by the guy’s desk and say, “It would be a huge help if you would give me some insight on (blank). Do you have time to grab lunch this week? My treat.” I’ve put the guy in a position of bestowing his knowledge on me and I’ve offered him a free lunch. People enjoy feeling helpful and knowledgeable.“
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“ It’s simple to ask a co-worker to coffee or lunch. Drinks after hours is a bigger ask, but lunch dudeing can lead to drinks dudeing. My most foolproof tactic has been to swing by the guy’s desk and say, “It would be a huge help if you would give me some insight on (blank). Do you have time to grab lunch this week? My treat.” I’ve put the guy in a position of bestowing his knowledge on me and I’ve offered him a free lunch. People enjoy feeling helpful and knowledgeable.“
