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petrushka Senior Members Forum Supporter Oh, the one about the abyss staring right back into you? That. Posts: 1,154 Age Range: 66-70	Admin/Moderator Jan 11, 2021 19:04:06 GMT -5 jim44444, ModHatter, and 3 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by petrushka on Jan 11, 2021 19:04:06 GMT -5 Do we still have anybody active here who has admin or moderator access? The Vietnamese spammer is getting to be very annoying.

jerri Senior Member Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice? Posts: 855 Age Range: 56-60	Admin/Moderator Jan 14, 2021 1:30:48 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jerri on Jan 14, 2021 1:30:48 GMT -5 Admin ModHatter ModCasper Admin Hope it helps tag them
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Admin/Moderator Jan 14, 2021 2:48:19 GMT -5 jerri likes this

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Post by petrushka on Jan 14, 2021 2:48:19 GMT -5

There are actually a few more, I had a look at the membership page and filtered by status. Dan was user#3. ('Admin' user#1) ... He was last online 9th of Dec '20.
Rhapsody is one of the earliest users, she may have admin status also, not sure, and she hasn't left. Leaving a personal message won't do much good until they log on, since this forum does not send out email notificatios about messages to users, as far as I know.

I'll send him a PM, see if that has any followup. Thanks, jerri

jerri Senior Member Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice? Posts: 855 Age Range: 56-60	Admin/Moderator Jan 14, 2021 2:59:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jerri on Jan 14, 2021 2:59:26 GMT -5 I looked at the roster and they had not been in since 2016... I just usually go to the button to turn in posts😮
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Admin/Moderator Feb 8, 2021 14:01:17 GMT -5 via mobile greatcoastal and jerri like this

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Post by ironhamster on Feb 8, 2021 14:01:17 GMT -5

Update.

Two pieces of bad news:

Until one returns, we are on the honor system and defenseless against Vietnamese salesmen.

ProBoards does not have any provision for adding new admins or moderators.

Ok. Here is the good news:

This board was set up as a free service. There is no annual maintenance fee. So, our stories, conversations, advice, and insights, will remain up as long as ProBoards remain in business.

For better or worse, that is where we stand.

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Admin/Moderator Feb 8, 2021 19:55:45 GMT -5 via mobile greatcoastal, mirrororchid, and 1 more like this

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Post by ironhamster on Feb 8, 2021 19:55:45 GMT -5

Update. The ProBoards admin says the Admin and two of the Mods have been on over the last three weeks. Apparently their last active date that we see doesn't reflect whether they are watching or not.

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Admin/Moderator Feb 9, 2021 7:02:39 GMT -5 ironhamster likes this

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Post by mirrororchid on Feb 9, 2021 7:02:39 GMT -5

Feb 8, 2021 19:55:45 GMT -5 ironhamster said:

Update. The ProBoards admin says the Admin and two of the Mods have been on over the last three weeks. Apparently their last active date that we see doesn't reflect whether they are watching or not.

Thanks for the investigation.
I was wondering why the spam eventually disappeared if we were truly abandoned.

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