Refuser Story Index
Feb 8, 2021 6:58:59 GMT -5
lwoetin, TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo, and 1 more like this
Post by mirrororchid on Feb 8, 2021 6:58:59 GMT -5
A project I'd like to compile at some point:
Stories by the refusers who brave the lion's den and post here.
Treat them well. They could have kept their mouths shut, but they're sharing and we can learn, even if we end up being unable to fix things.
iliasm.org/thread/5856/reposted-welcome-thread-sexless-marriage - intimacy-skittish H, but no idea why
iliasm.org/thread/5757/husband-skin-crawl - never attracted to H, married anyway, bad sex (thanks to jerri for identifying this one)
Will add more later.
If anyone knows of a thread to include, feel free to comment and I can add it to this list.
I created a thread specifically for refusers to tell us about their experiences:
iliasm.org/thread/6188/refuser-stories
If ILIASM members choose to visit, I ask you be especially indulgent and fight any effort to chastise or engage in any other negativity.
We want to get other perspectives and that won't happen if refusers feel scared to share their perspective that we dislike/disagree with.
Stories by the refusers who brave the lion's den and post here.
Treat them well. They could have kept their mouths shut, but they're sharing and we can learn, even if we end up being unable to fix things.
iliasm.org/thread/5856/reposted-welcome-thread-sexless-marriage - intimacy-skittish H, but no idea why
iliasm.org/thread/5757/husband-skin-crawl - never attracted to H, married anyway, bad sex (thanks to jerri for identifying this one)
Will add more later.
If anyone knows of a thread to include, feel free to comment and I can add it to this list.
I created a thread specifically for refusers to tell us about their experiences:
iliasm.org/thread/6188/refuser-stories
If ILIASM members choose to visit, I ask you be especially indulgent and fight any effort to chastise or engage in any other negativity.
We want to get other perspectives and that won't happen if refusers feel scared to share their perspective that we dislike/disagree with.
