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Post by darktippedrose on May 11, 2021 15:59:56 GMT -5
I have made sooo many changes lately.
My grandma died on my birthday. In November I started going to Southern New Hampshire University for my BS in Accounting and Finance. I became interested in the Occult for healing. I've started doing shadow work and manifestation. I got Moldavite. And now .........
I just started the process of filing for a divorce. My anxiety is through the roof. I found out a woman, I think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now. I am so anxious. I just had a thought in my head "why wait" and now I am in contact with a group for people in my state with low-income who need help with legal matters.
Its exciting and terrifying.
Any advice from successful divorcees?
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Post by jim44444 on May 11, 2021 16:41:21 GMT -5
Good to hear an update from you.
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Post by darktippedrose on May 11, 2021 16:45:14 GMT -5
Good to hear an update from you. Thank you! So much has happened that last 1.5 years. It is truly insane.
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Post by isthisit on May 11, 2021 17:08:39 GMT -5
I have made sooo many changes lately. My grandma died on my birthday. In November I started going to Southern New Hampshire University for my BS in Accounting and Finance. I became interested in the Occult for healing. I've started doing shadow work and manifestation. I got Moldavite. And now ......... I just started the process of filing for a divorce. My anxiety is through the roof. I found out a woman, I think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now. I am so anxious. I just had a thought in my head "why wait" and now I am in contact with a group for people in my state with low-income who need help with legal matters. Its exciting and terrifying. Any advice from successful divorcees? Just keep putting one foot in the front of the other, and have faith in yourself to find a way through. Do not consider looking backwards.
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Post by northstarmom on May 11, 2021 17:17:35 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmom. I know she was a loving presence in your life. I'm glad to hear you've gone back to school and have started the process of divorce filing. For me, I was so miserable in my marriage that divorce was a great relief. The hardest part was filling out and finding out the financial information. I had a friend help me with that as I've get very anxious when dealing with numbers and budgets.
Please stay in touch with us. We can be a source of support.
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Post by darktippedrose on May 11, 2021 18:42:14 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmom. I know she was a loving presence in your life. I'm glad to hear you've gone back to school and have started the process of divorce filing. For me, I was so miserable in my marriage that divorce was a great relief. The hardest part was filling out and finding out the financial information. I had a friend help me with that as I've get very anxious when dealing with numbers and budgets. Please stay in touch with us. We can be a source of support. thank you! I will. Its been a crazy last two days with finding lawyers and help that I could and could not afford. craziness at its best.
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Post by baza on May 11, 2021 18:48:09 GMT -5
I have made sooo many changes lately. My grandma died on my birthday. In November I started going to Southern New Hampshire University for my BS in Accounting and Finance. I became interested in the Occult for healing. I've started doing shadow work and manifestation. I got Moldavite. And now ......... I just started the process of filing for a divorce. My anxiety is through the roof. I found out a woman, I think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now. I am so anxious. I just had a thought in my head "why wait" and now I am in contact with a group for people in my state with low-income who need help with legal matters. Its exciting and terrifying. Any advice from successful divorcees? Plugging in to legal and personal resources in your jurisdiction is a very good move you have made Sister darktippedrose . The support and suggestions will prove to be of great value to you and help get you over the rough spots that are inevitably going to arise. Great to see you taking some positive actions after all these years.
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Post by Handy on May 11, 2021 20:40:59 GMT -5
Darktippedrose Point #1 It is good to hear that you are taking charge of your life.
think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now. Point #2 Is there any way that you can get away from the idea of “black magic” actually working? I think it would lighten your mental load and be one less thing to think about.
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Post by darktippedrose on May 12, 2021 0:25:27 GMT -5
Darktippedrose Point #1 It is good to hear that you are taking charge of your life. think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now.Point #2 Is there any way that you can get away from the idea of “black magic” actually working? I think it would lighten your mental load and be one less thing to think about. for #2, I am working with several witches to help me out with this one, to protect me and my kids. I have that area covered, hopefully. but the anxiety while going to school. And ..... eventually I'm going to move to another place because people keep on trying to break into my front porch/side door area and it can be incredibly scary.
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Post by mirrororchid on May 12, 2021 6:04:58 GMT -5
Darktippedrose Point #1 It is good to hear that you are taking charge of your life. think my husband's girlfriend has been putting black magic on me. My husband and I haven't had sex for 8 years now.Point #2 Is there any way that you can get away from the idea of “black magic” actually working? I think it would lighten your mental load and be one less thing to think about. Black magic does work. Here's an example, 21st century style. Voodoo works under the same principle. A negative placebo effect. And when that doesn't work, the voodoo doctor slips a viper into your house in the middle of the night. "Wow! How unlucky! Musta been that voodoo!") God's wrath has been blamed for bad luck or circumstances more than once. God's will is a reason some folks feel just fine ignoring those in need. As for the break-ins, motion activated lighting and a few Ring cameras should discourage prowlers some. If you like dogs, I read an article saying burglars hate it when you have two, for some reason. One they can handle, but two are too much? A reason why a team was more effective wasn't offered. If you can afford a security system.... the monthly bills are ugly, alas. You don't have to be Fort Knox. You just need to be risky.
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Post by Handy on May 12, 2021 12:19:04 GMT -5
Padgemi “You already have all the love you’ll ever need. You should give it to yourself.” YES times 100!
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Post by lessingham on May 13, 2021 3:36:22 GMT -5
A few years back I had my fortune read by a wicca witch. It was weirdly funny, a lot of Barnum statements shot through with deadly accurate comments. Atvthe end she told me to get divorced, the best thing she ever did. It was a statement out of the blue and really shook me up.
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Post by Handy on May 13, 2021 12:51:00 GMT -5
Lessingham A few years back I had my fortune read by a wicca witch.
I can understand some people's "intuition" but things that can not be scientifically replicated do nor hold any validity for me.
"Knock on wood" "good luck" "May the force be with you" all are cute sayings but not provable.
What does work is doing the actual work to reach a goal, like an accounting degree, one class at a time and not letting superstitions interfere with a worthy goal. Real life is too complicated without adding things that do not have a scientific provable outcome.
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Post by darktippedrose on May 13, 2021 13:21:55 GMT -5
Lessingham A few years back I had my fortune read by a wicca witch.I can understand some people's "intuition" but things that can not be scientifically replicated do nor hold any validity for me. "Knock on wood" "good luck" "May the force be with you" all are cute sayings but not provable. What does work is doing the actual work to reach a goal, like an accounting degree, one class at a time and not letting superstitions interfere with a worthy goal. Real life is too complicated without adding things that do not have a scientific provable outcome. its about balance. I knew my son was low in my womb. But because i was early in my pregnancy, doctors and their science would not believe a word I had to say. Its about balance.
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Post by Handy on May 13, 2021 14:56:32 GMT -5
Darktippedrose, sometimes streamlining your life (giving up a few things) makes it easier to reach a goal. You have kids with special needs if I remember correctly, you have the divorce from someone that I consider uncaring of your situation and you have a university degree program to work on. I see the degree, the kids, and the divorce as taking priority to some other things. I don't want to see you having to take on some extra beliefs or problems. I want to see you succeed in the divorce, degree and kid areas.
I only wish you the best outcomes and sometimes that requires putting things on the back burner.
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