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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 30, 2023 9:15:29 GMT -5
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Post by aquacat on Dec 30, 2023 9:48:43 GMT -5
I’ve tried sharing these types of videos and articles with my wife and she just rolls her eyes.
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Post by lonelyhubby on Dec 30, 2023 9:49:58 GMT -5
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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 30, 2023 17:51:17 GMT -5
I’ve tried sharing these types of videos and articles with my wife and she just rolls her eyes. This reminds me of my ex,and how almost every response to a conversation started with her saying a cold, distant, hollow "no". (like a boss bitch) Witch she was/is in her career. A red flag to look out for in future relationships. The rolling of the eyes is the first part of DARVO.
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 30, 2023 19:14:58 GMT -5
"The rolling of the eyes is the first part of DARVO."
It indicates contempt, the worst sign that a marriage is heading for a divorce within about 5 years.
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Post by lonelyhubby on Dec 31, 2023 11:11:14 GMT -5
Could be for Women also.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jan 1, 2024 7:55:03 GMT -5
The first comment in the video from Dr Psych Mom herself: " Pinned by Dr. Psych Mom @drpsychmom 22 hours ago for any guy who has ever said he loves touch or intimacy there are ZERO replacement acts. if you tell yourself there are, it would be useful to think of what he could do to replace key aspects of what you need emotionally. is there an amount of housework he could do to make up for not saying I love you? is there an amount of physical touch he could give you to make up for forgetting your birthday? don't try to rationalize yourself out of the truth that there is no replacement for what your partner says they need. couples therapy can help if you know this but still can't bring yourself to touch him. there may be real issues stopping you from doing this. but at least don't pretend there's ways to be a good wife to 90% of men without touch. www.drpsychmom.com/is-physical-touch-the-most-important-love-language/"
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