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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 17, 2017 1:04:17 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was too "lazy on her day off".
But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down.
I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August!
Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really?
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Post by merrygoround on Apr 17, 2017 3:05:42 GMT -5
Not showering as a trick to keep you away? Jeez that's horrible. What a nasty technique.
Glad you at least did something for yourself - just take care of you.
I'm sorry for this, i really am.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 17, 2017 7:17:16 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was to "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? I am sorry for your loss. And I get it, given that my partner has indicated that she intentionally will not have sex on anniversaries. Of course, why should that day be different than any other for her. Like my birthday, Saturday, etc. I just mark years of penal servitude. Seriously, excellent choice to take care of yourself. That is what matters. |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 17, 2017 8:37:45 GMT -5
Not showering as a trick to keep you away? Jeez that's horrible. What a nasty technique. Glad you at least did something for yourself - just take care of you. I'm sorry for this, i really am. Thank you. Yeah, she always reminds me of a puffer fish, with a strong defense against a husband who comes sniffing too close. I don't try anymore, but back in the day, she had a million tricks to avoid sex. |
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Post by thefullmoon on Apr 17, 2017 10:53:28 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was to "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? Ask yourself one very brutal question... How many more sexless anniversaries (and 364 sexless days on every single one) will you accept? 12 years will soon turn into 15...then in no time at all into 25... then absolute majority of people here sigh with sad regret .."it is too late...who will want me now?".... |
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Post by darktippedrose on Apr 17, 2017 10:57:46 GMT -5
So sorry. I haven't been allowed to celebrate Anniversary's period. I have literally never celebrated an anniversary or valentine's day at all. Secretly I yearn for things like that. I probably won't admit it out loud but I do .
it sucks. This summer, I will have been married for 14 years.
And yes, my husband most definitely doesn't want to have sex. he'll say that I'm old and that I just no longer think about it. But his hyper religious self would be disgusted if he knew I masterbated.
And no showering on purpose - yeah my husband only showers and smells good for other people.
le sigh
hang in there ~
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Post by shamwow on Apr 17, 2017 11:28:56 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was to "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? That kind of reminds me of when I told my sister about my SM. Her first question when I said there was no sex was 'well how are the blowjobs jobs and hand jobs?' Hahaha hahaha. She thought I'd gone insane the way I laughed. At least your no sex anniversary isn't the same as your wedding anniversary. This July will be 20 years marriage and 3 years celibacy. The divorce should also be pretty close to final at that point too. Happy anniversary! |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2017 14:36:57 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was too "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? No, that is not too much to ask. Actually, if she loved you, she would be fucking your brains out on your anniversary. Just keep walking the path my friend. You will know when it is time to start walking a new path. |
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Post by baza on Apr 17, 2017 21:40:44 GMT -5
Like Sister thefullmoon says, "12 years will soon turn into 15...then in no time at all into 25... then absolute majority of people here sigh with sad regret .."it is too late...who will want me now?".... You can count the landmark days off if that's what you want to do. Your birthday, her birthday, your anniversary, christmas, easter, Aunty Maudes 90th, thanksgiving, kids birthdays, etc etc so there is always a further "event" in the reasonably near future to mark the passage of time. If that's what you want to do. |
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Post by appleaday on Apr 17, 2017 22:48:46 GMT -5
I'm so sorry to hear that. I get pretty depressed come my anniversary because I know it will amount to nothing as usual too. I don't know if I could make it 12 years but I guess it just adds up so quickly. Already at three years celebrate. Sigh.
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Apr 18, 2017 0:53:16 GMT -5
The only anniversary sex I had, I became pregnant with my daughter  Apparently my body liked that hahaha! Our last anniversary I tried to give my H a blowjob in the car before we went back home. Got a big, even if there was a jest like tone in his voice, no! I'm hopeful to finally get the birthday present I want this year. Thankfully we all understand this  |
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Post by nolongerlonely on Apr 18, 2017 3:57:32 GMT -5
The only anniversary sex I had, I became pregnant with my daughter Apparently my body liked that hahaha! Our last anniversary I tried to give my H a blowjob in the car before we went back home. Got a big, even if there was a jest like tone in his voice, no! I'm hopeful to finally get the birthday present I want this year. Thankfully we all understand this What a shame. I've never had one of those during marriage, let alone in a car. The man's an idiot. Sorry Mrslowm |
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Post by nolongerlonely on Apr 18, 2017 4:03:09 GMT -5
Oh, and I get fairly depressed on anniversary day. She usually forgets. Was told not to bother with valentines gifts about 10 years ago. At 25 years (3 years ago) all seemed utterly pointless. Then told how awful I am for not celebrating it. Talk about mixed messages. I really need to do something constructive about all of this
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Post by seabr33z3 on Apr 18, 2017 4:23:24 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was too "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? Really hoping you didn't buy her a card.... |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 18, 2017 12:33:46 GMT -5
Happy Anniversary to me! You know, I didn't feel as bad as I thought I would today. Sure I would have liked at least a blowjob, or even just a handjob since we survived 12 years, but nothing came close to intimacy. She pulled one of her old tricks to make sure I didn't try anything funny: she didn't shower today because she was too "lazy on her day off". But, I took myself shopping on Amazon and bought myself something nice for putting up with this stupid shit for 12 years. And ended the night as I always do, spending time with my trusty member, who never lets me down. I'm looking to another Anniversary: my one year mark since my last mediocre sex experience with the W. Coming up in August! Seriously....is a handjob too much to ask for your Anniversary? Really? Really hoping you didn't buy her a card.... A card AND present. It wasn't much, but it was at least worth a handjob. |
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Apparently my body liked that hahaha!
