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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Sept 5, 2018 22:36:43 GMT -5
I regret none of my outsourcing. Both the women I outsourced with are beautiful, wonderful, energetic women who love life, intimacy, and sex. I feel very fortunate that they shared themselves with me. Would I do it again? Yes, definitely, but only with a local woman. The first woman I outsourced with lives in New Zealand, I live just outside of Seattle. The second woman lives an hour and a half away, just far enough to make things difficult.
So, if you are a woman in the Woodinville / Bothell / Redmond / Kirkland / Duvall area of Western Washington that is also in a sexless marriage who happens to be on the shorter side with a larger then average butt that is interested in outsourcing. We should have a conversation.
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Post by javba on Sept 6, 2018 22:31:48 GMT -5
Just putting a put in here, back scratching available, Chicago
North West Burbs
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Post by shamwow on Sept 7, 2018 8:07:21 GMT -5
Just putting a put in here, back scratching available, Chicago North West Burbs What about front scratching? |
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Post by sadkat on Sept 7, 2018 9:24:33 GMT -5
I regret none of my outsourcing. Both the women I outsourced with are beautiful, wonderful, energetic women who love life, intimacy, and sex. I feel very fortunate that they shared themselves with me. Would I do it again? Yes, definitely, but only with a local woman. The first woman I outsourced with lives in New Zealand, I live just outside of Seattle. The second woman lives an hour and a half away, just far enough to make things difficult. So, if you are a woman in the Woodinville / Bothell / Redmond / Kirkland / Duvall area of Western Washington that is also in a sexless marriage who happens to be on the shorter side with a larger then average butt that is interested in outsourcing. We should have a conversation. Sorry- on the taller side with a normal sized butt living across the country from your location. But- you made me laugh so you get points for that! |
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Post by javba on Sept 7, 2018 9:53:21 GMT -5
Just putting a put in here, back scratching available, Chicago North West Burbs What about front scratching? Front "detailing services" available, complete lawn care, polish, wax and oil change. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 7, 2018 9:59:24 GMT -5
What about front scratching? Front "detailing services" available, complete lawn care, polish, wax and oil change. I'm jealous. I never learned how to change the oil....only to check it. |
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Post by worksforme2 on Sept 7, 2018 10:05:21 GMT -5
Wee! I get to buck the trend. I regret it big time. In my case, I was childish and selfish. Reckless. I was never caught. So from the parts of your post I deleted I am inferring she was caught. And that her H perhaps learned somehow who you are and proceeded to make life less than comfortable for you and really unpleasant for her. |
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Post by sadkat on Sept 7, 2018 10:33:17 GMT -5
What about front scratching? Front "detailing services" available, complete lawn care, polish, wax and oil change. OMG! I have got to stop reading these posts! You are NOT HELPING!!! Lol |
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 10:56:50 GMT -5
I did not outsource during my marriage and during my two years of divorce. I remember the advice I was given here, (not a direct quote) "woman are going to be even more turned off by your dishonesty, and will be wondering more , what's wrong with you? That your W doesn't want you?"
I just remember how complicated it seemed to explain my SM to someone. Like a pity party, like I needed sympathy, (and I did) I also needed confirmation that "I am still desirable". It's rather difficult to present yourself as desirable, while needing sympathy at the same time?
Think about what YOU are offering to someone else? What you bring to the table for them? Now that I am single I offer a much better 'package'.
I remember one of my lowest points. I found myself walking alone down the beach on a Fri. night looking up at all the hotel rooms and balconies, thinking, "there must be some woman here, alone who wants to be with a man. Someone who is thinking, I wonder if there are any men who live around here or are staying in this hotel alone tonight?"
I began to feel like I was selling myself short, like a prostitute. ( I KNOW BETTER than to think that about someone who has outsourced! Please don't get me wrong).
It can be a time filled with crazy, raw emotions, and mind games. Think about it. You may just be setting yourself up for more rejection, and disappointment? It's not always worth it.
Just be careful out there in your journeys!
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Post by shamwow on Sept 7, 2018 11:21:07 GMT -5
Front "detailing services" available, complete lawn care, polish, wax and oil change. OMG! I have got to stop reading these posts! You are NOT HELPING!!! Lol But he hasn't even gotten to the part about the hydraulic lift yet.... 😕 |
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Post by sadkat on Sept 7, 2018 11:32:26 GMT -5
OMG! I have got to stop reading these posts! You are NOT HELPING!!! Lol But he hasn't even gotten to the part about the hydraulic lift yet.... 😕 - you also get points for making me laugh! Thank you for that! |
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Post by shamwow on Sept 7, 2018 11:37:25 GMT -5
But he hasn't even gotten to the part about the hydraulic lift yet.... 😕 - you also get points for making me laugh! Thank you for that! If you want a laugh along these lines check out the pros and cons of sex swings in my sex swing post on sexually speaking. |
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Post by sadkat on Sept 7, 2018 11:42:06 GMT -5
shamwow- you also get points for making me laugh! Thank you for that! If you want a laugh along these lines check out the pros and cons of sex swings in my sex swing post on sexually speaking. Today might not be a good day for that- it would probably send me over the edge and I’d do something stupid. But I’ll add it to my reading list for when I’m not feeling so much “on edge” 😬. |
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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Sept 7, 2018 11:45:20 GMT -5
I get introspective like this at times except with a different twist. It goes something like: At any given moment, all around the world, there are millions of people fucking. Some for the first time, some for the last, some with a new partner, some with a regular partner. Its a lot of sexual energy and I want to tap into it. I dont know what that says about me. I found myself walking alone down the beach on a Fri. night looking up at all the hotel rooms and balconies, thinking, "there must be some woman here, alone who wants to be with a man. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 7, 2018 11:54:01 GMT -5
I get introspective like this at times except with a different twist. It goes something like: At any given moment, all around the world, there are millions of people fucking. Some for the first time, some for the last, some with a new partner, some with a regular partner. Its a lot of sexual energy and I want to tap into it. I dont know what that says about me. I found myself walking alone down the beach on a Fri. night looking up at all the hotel rooms and balconies, thinking, "there must be some woman here, alone who wants to be with a man. Amen! to that. For me it said " I just want to feel NORMAL again".... Only I found comfort in thinking " you have waited this long, better to wait a little longer when 'rejection, and complications' won't be as difficult. |
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