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Post by saarinista on Mar 30, 2021 11:44:48 GMT -5
Probably what happened was handy's wife slipped into a mode where she figured she was married and thus she didn't have to put out any effort to stay married. Sadly, some people are like that. Who knows, but I seriously doubt it hand anything to do with Handy himself. |
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Post by Handy on Mar 30, 2021 13:58:33 GMT -5
Saarinista, thanks for the vote of confidence. Sadly my guess some of my past medical situations going back to 1981, economic challenges, her medical situations and her working in a "pro women" organization for 15 years had some rather major influences. Now maybe once or twice a week would be my speed for me. I think my W might be OK with couple of quickies 2X a year if I did most of the work. I would probably feel like a pest and that is a big reason I gave up on sex at home. I generally look for win-win interactions with people. Like with you and your H, I am not looking to crush my W or anyone else to get my way.
The past 18 months has been challenging in several ways. Yes I beat cancer but the treatments came at some costs, so right now I am coasting and focusing on what I need.
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Post by catlover on Apr 3, 2021 9:55:19 GMT -5
Fuck, I would love once a month!
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Post by DrNo on Apr 6, 2021 2:46:18 GMT -5
DrNo and blueguy What would happen if you left this book on the coffee table? I did this and got no response, he ignored it. But I was in apathetic mode and I did it just because! Nothing new in this book and it's contents didn't match the title. Why Married Couples don't have sex At least Not With Each Other" When it first came out I could only get it through Canada Amazon.  Now that looks like a good book! I may well invest and see what happens in the world of Mrs No. To be honest I think she would just laugh it off. I'm quite blunt at times now, which I doubt helps. For example if the subject is raised on tv, in general wider conversation with friends, or just alone in general daily chats, I just say "what is the point we don't have sex anymore", and she replies that we do and that this or that is happening and and and.... I do not even say to her anymore that "well you could try this, or that". I do not bother. I am not for one second saying this is all my wifes issue. After all we are both in this. Her problem for sure is she works too much. Does she do that to get away from me, I do not think so. I'm not that kind of guy and always feel she wants to be with me. The problem is she will not admit she just does DO sex very well. That is not me being nasty, but for sure I've been with some pretty amazing ladies in my life, girlfriends, and I have tried everything to introduce my wife to some excitement. Failed every time. It has got to the point of being "just how it is" ..  Shame really. |
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Post by Handy on Nov 17, 2021 17:56:42 GMT -5
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