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Post by dancingbear70 on May 16, 2016 15:53:23 GMT -5
Hi everyone I'm new .never heard of this site before.i hope to get some female opinions to my 10 years without any sex.and 1 hugg a month marriage. I'm 48 married to a 34 year old 2 kids and the sex stopped dead after our son second kid was born.thats it.dead took off her rings and became a freezer on legs. She has a thyroid problem.claims she's always tired and only has effort for her 4 hours a day phone addiction. I'm whale shit... Way a sex dynamo when we first got together when she was 17.always naked always sagging nudist beaches holidays ect ect now she's Mary poppins. ..and ideas why girls ....don't want to talk about it doesn't want any affection unless she's I'll. And always asks for hugs from the kids who don't want to give it to her only me.... I'm a bit taken aback by your description of your wife as a "freezer on legs" and your username, tbh. YIKES. Thyroid conditions notoriously zap a person's energy, so I can certainly understand why she would be tired. What exactly are your expectations of her? Counseling? Nude beaches again? I am with you Z. It is so hard for me to tell if this is legit or a troll. And the grammar doesn't help (ooof!). I never want to dismiss someone having a legitimately bad time, but this just doesn't seem like the way to engage a group. |
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Post by skguy on May 16, 2016 20:16:47 GMT -5
Hello all, LITW here ... new name, same me. Details of the name switch available upon request.  Thank goodness... your new name is much easier to pronounce.  Too funny. lol |
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Post by nahmastay on May 16, 2016 22:07:10 GMT -5
Hello all! Nahmastay here. I found EP in 2012 while going through a particularly rough patch. I was lurker who read into the wee hours for support. A few weeks ago I reached out to EP again and saw all of the goodbye posts and was like noooooooooo. then I saw the link to this new forum and am so thankful to have a place like this for support and sharing. So, lurker no more! Thank you and looking forward to contributing.
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Post by lwoetin on May 17, 2016 0:00:24 GMT -5
Hello all! Nahmastay here. I found EP in 2012 while going through a particularly rough patch. I was lurker who read into the wee hours for support. A few weeks ago I reached out to EP again and saw all of the goodbye posts and was like noooooooooo. then I saw the link to this new forum and am so thankful to have a place like this for support and sharing. So, lurker no more! Thank you and looking forward to contributing. great. I joined EP around that time too so looking forward to reading your story. |
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Post by LITW on May 17, 2016 6:11:02 GMT -5
Hello all! Nahmastay here. I found EP in 2012 while going through a particularly rough patch. I was lurker who read into the wee hours for support. A few weeks ago I reached out to EP again and saw all of the goodbye posts and was like noooooooooo. then I saw the link to this new forum and am so thankful to have a place like this for support and sharing. So, lurker no more! Thank you and looking forward to contributing. Welcome, and I love your username! |
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Post by DryCreek on May 17, 2016 9:19:44 GMT -5
LITW, your name change (or rather, your clone) was short-lived...
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Post by DryCreek on May 17, 2016 9:42:28 GMT -5
Once I realized that even if I deleted my account and opened a new one, my old name (and my posts if I were quoted) would still be visible in other people's posts True. Anywhere your name was referenced without being tagged, it wouldn't be updated. But anywhere you're tagged like LITW, if you change your account name all those references change too (like in the header of the quote here). To your concern... Yes, in general it's probably a good idea to use a unique account name here that is nothing like a pet name your spouse might have for you. So that simeone who knows your username on the Train Spotters forum doesn't tie to your identity here. |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 11:14:38 GMT -5
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Post by nahmastay on May 17, 2016 13:43:18 GMT -5
Thanks for the screen name love. A little humor always helps! |
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Post by nahmastay on May 17, 2016 13:47:34 GMT -5
Hello all! Nahmastay here. I found EP in 2012 while going through a particularly rough patch. I was lurker who read into the wee hours for support. A few weeks ago I reached out to EP again and saw all of the goodbye posts and was like noooooooooo. then I saw the link to this new forum and am so thankful to have a place like this for support and sharing. So, lurker no more! Thank you and looking forward to contributing. great. I joined EP around that time too so looking forward to reading your story. Thanks! Looking forward to connecting with like minded passionate people. I never posted on EP but plan on contributing here. |
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Post by nahmastay on May 17, 2016 13:54:27 GMT -5
Thanks I struggle with that stuff but I was pretty happy about the name and that this is a new forum so we are lucky to have so many options! |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 14:11:09 GMT -5
Thanks for the screen name love. A little humor always helps! Love it. Welcome nahmastay. I agree, keep that sense of humor! Good for you. Hope you find what you need here. |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 14:17:44 GMT -5
Thank you eternaloptimism. My eyes have really been opened after just one day of being here. I have to admit that some of the stories on here have really affected me deeply. I haven't had a chance to go back and read everyone's introduction yet, but so far, I've been really moved. There's part of me that wants to help everyone, but that's impossible I know. But I will try and give my full support whenever I can. p.s. I love your user name. Well thanks I swear, once your eyes are opened you feel much more empowered... About choices really. It's still hard and a mega journey for us all to take, but it's fab to be able to talk frankly and honestly isn't it. Hope you stay around and get strong xxxx Heck yeah, to both of you, eternaloptimism and skguy! I agree. My eyes have been opened wide by being on here, even just for a short time. I came in utterly depressed and defeated and now, just days later, I have grabbed my bootstraps, yanked hard and now - I'm moving again and nothing's going to stop me this time. I took my rings off, joined a gym and I am not looking back. My refuser is going to be sorry he ever messed with me. Pink hair rules!! (Having a good day - hopefully the first of many, many more to come.) Hang in there everyone - even if only long enough to GET OUT!! |
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Post by Deleted on May 17, 2016 14:19:50 GMT -5
Hi everyone I'm new .never heard of this site before.i hope to get some female opinions to my 10 years without any sex.and 1 hugg a month marriage. I'm 48 married to a 34 year old 2 kids and the sex stopped dead after our son second kid was born.thats it.dead took off her rings and became a freezer on legs. She has a thyroid problem.claims she's always tired and only has effort for her 4 hours a day phone addiction. I'm whale shit... Way a sex dynamo when we first got together when she was 17.always naked always sagging nudist beaches holidays ect ect now she's Mary poppins. ..and ideas why girls ....don't want to talk about it doesn't want any affection unless she's I'll. And always asks for hugs from the kids who don't want to give it to her only me.... I'm a bit taken aback by your description of your wife as a "freezer on legs" and your username, tbh. YIKES. Thyroid conditions notoriously zap a person's energy, so I can certainly understand why she would be tired. What exactly are your expectations of her? Counseling? Nude beaches again? What @zumbamami said. |
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Post by omixochitl on May 17, 2016 14:51:16 GMT -5
Hello everyone. I found this website after searching online for support. I had a session with my therapist this morning and was steered in the direction that she always steers me, to find "my half" of this problem. I'm so tired of trying to figure out what I'm doing to contribute, even if it's only half. I just need some support now. My heart is torn up and I'm so exhausted.
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