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Post by hopingforachange on May 25, 2017 12:04:11 GMT -5
Welcome, pull up a chair kick your shoes off prop your feet up on the coffee table.
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Post by Venus Erotes on May 26, 2017 22:11:41 GMT -5
Hi Mas!
How are things in LA, CA?
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Post by nancyb on May 27, 2017 4:11:50 GMT -5
Welcome to the forum Mas. Hope you find some help and solace here.  |
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on May 27, 2017 19:58:32 GMT -5
We are all a little broken. I hope you find comfort in seeing all the different places, professions, life styles and stages of marriage we are all in. We'd be happy to read your story when you are ready |
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Post by Venus Erotes on May 27, 2017 20:47:51 GMT -5
We are all a little broken. I hope you find comfort in seeing all the different places, professions, life styles and stages of marriage we are all in. We'd be happy to read your story when you are ready What she said. We're all here for you. |
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Post by njsojourner on May 30, 2017 7:10:53 GMT -5
Well my therapist hasn't been so helpful except he listens and encourages me to talk to my wife more about it. But my wife doesn't want to discuss it further because she says it makes her feel bad to talk about it. My therapist has suggested I find other healthy outlets: yoga, mediation, exercise, etc. The alternative of leaving my marriage built over 40 years just seems so foreign to me. But I am going to try meditation and yoga this summer when work calms down a bit. |
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Post by njsojourner on May 30, 2017 7:18:47 GMT -5
thanks, I will try it. My wife was in pain last time we did it. Hopefully menopause is not around the corner. She said it was a mixture of pain and pleasure. She was at CVS pharmacy the next day and looked at alternatives. Worth trying. Many thanks. My life can't get any more complex... my wife's annual "female" check up reveals she has "atrophy" and its basically closed up which is why it hurts. The doctor had a hard time doing her exam. Basically she said there is really no hope for sex. And she reminds me she has no interest--she is "sorry" but that is the way it is. |
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Post by Deleted on May 30, 2017 9:48:40 GMT -5
My life can't get any more complex... my wife's annual "female" check up reveals she has "atrophy" and its basically closed up which is why it hurts. The doctor had a hard time doing her exam. Basically she said there is really no hope for sex. And she reminds me she has no interest--she is "sorry" but that is the way it is. Let me guess. She refuses to start hormone replacement therapy. |
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Post by hopingforachange on May 30, 2017 10:20:15 GMT -5
Just because you can't do vaginal intercourse, does not justify stopping everything.
Her "sorry" is directed to you and to tell you there is no longer any hope.
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Post by njsojourner on May 30, 2017 19:04:07 GMT -5
Right, no HRT. The reason is that she had a breast cancer scare four years ago and she won't risk it. Of course, I suppose you have to care about the lack of sex and want it to change then you can find solutions.
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2017 6:54:06 GMT -5
Right, no HRT. The reason is that she had a breast cancer scare four years ago and she won't risk it. Of course, I suppose you have to care about the lack of sex and want it to change then you can find solutions. The truth is that she does not love you or she would find a solution |
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Post by njsojourner on Jun 2, 2017 21:40:27 GMT -5
well i'm not so sure it is so black and white but maybe it is.
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